There are several types of kisses. Simple kiss, mischievous kiss, lovers kiss or kiss before sex. Whatever might be the kiss but the pleasure in all of them is same. To express their love and affection there is no greater means that you can rely rather than kiss.

There is so much importance for kiss in sex. More use of kisses more close you get to each other.

There are several uses of a kiss. During kissing the salivary glands will salivate more,which will help in preventing caries,destroys bacteria in mouth and helps in maintaining proper oral hygiene. The more you keep on kissing more is the salivation.

In a french kiss, a total of 23 muscles will become active and perform their action and as a result those muscles are relaxed, tuned and exercised.

During kissing there will be release of several hormones in human body which will create a state of well being, pleasure, thrill and happiness. The main hormone among these is Dopamine.

Try to experiment while kissing, having a chocolate, a sip of wine with olives, smell of natural flowers etc..But in addition to these Kissing is an art. One should know how to kiss properly. Touching or interlocking the lips doesn't make a kiss,there should be passion, there should be love, there should be commitment, there should be lust.

Generally females don't like to lip lock with her lower lip in her boys mouth and boys sometimes kiss by taking both of her lips into his mouth. So be aware of kissing techniques and have a good posture, take each other in to arms, have a warm hug and then proceed to kiss.

All these actions will generate higher amounts of Dopamine and creates a feeling of happiness and pleasure which is healthy for neurons in brain.This enhancing the life and activity of neurons of brain.

So happy kissing and be healthy.

There are many ways to be romantic and some of them are easier than others. Sending romantic and flirtatious text messages is one of the easiest ways to show your love and get her to like you more. Why? It is because text messaging and SMS text messages have become an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men! It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), and you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances. This can help to build up your confidence. Most important, it cuts out all the attraction triggers that can normally work against you, such as your clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc?., so all you are left with are your words and timing. Before going further on how you can impress and make her thinking of you more often through text messaging, you need to first watch out some of the mistakes that we may make in sending messages. (i) Sending boring one-lines that can lead to the other person answering either a yes or no. This reminds me of how lawyers cross-examine witnesses in courts. When talking to opposite sex whether face-to-face or by text messaging we should avoid talking in this way and instead ask open-ended questions that allow the other person the chance to talk as much as he/she can. (ii) Avoid sending those normal, day-to-day conversation words like ?How are you?? or ?What are you doing?? These messages are boring and they do nothing to impress or attract women. Here are 3 ways to make text messaging more interesting: (1) Messages that can bring her into action One of the ways you can consider is while she is in the office, you send her an SMS asking her to check the email box. Before doing this, you will send a romantic electronic card that probably displays a big red heart or a picture of a guy blowing kisses with some words like ?I can?t wait to kiss you again.? (2) Sending messages saying why you love her Probably you have already said or whisper to her ears countless time ?I love you?. How about making this more sincere or romantic by explaining why you love her through text messages? For a memorable series of romantic text messages, start with the first one with, ?Why I love you.? Then throughout the rest of the day, send more romantic text messages that explain exactly why you love her in great detail. Some ideas for you to bounce off from here: (a) You make me a better man (b) You accept my shortcomings and love me the way I am (c) You make me feel comfortable when I am around you (d) You bring out the best in me (e) No one else has ever made me feel the way like you do (f) Being in love with you is one of the best things that ever happen to me (g) Your strengths and integrity inspires me to be a better person (3) Sending messages using quoted love poems What better way to express your love in the form of love poems? You could send a series of romantic text messages, listing out an entire poem, Or, probably you may use one of these short love poetry quotes as text messages any time. (a) Roses are red and the sky is blue, my love for you is always true. (b) Soul meets soul on lover?s lips (c) You are more than love to me...You are everything. (d) The miles are many, the visits are few, but when you see the sun set think of me and you. (e) I want someone who will never leave my side. I want someone who will say "I love you" and mean it. I want someone who will watch a Friday night movie w/me. I want someone who will put me in a happy mood when I'm in a bad one. I want someone who will hold me when I'm scared. I want someone who will give me the jacket when I'm cold. I want.........you

"How to kiss a girl?" The two meanings of this phrase.

A lot of guys will ask this question... but it ussually has two very different meanings:

1) It is a question about how to become a "good" kisser. How to kiss as a "process" and

2) It is (more often I think) a more general question encompassing several others like: "how do I know when is the right time to kiss her", "how do I know that she wants to be kissed", "shoud I kiss her or not"

This page deals with the second aspect.

Let's take this one step at a time!

How do... I kiss a girl? How do I know it's the right time? How do I know she's ready?

These are your questions, but I am not going to answer them, I am going to tease you a little with the answer you need to hear first. The reason most men do not kiss a girl is because they don't even GO FOR IT... and the top reasons that men don't go for the kiss are:

Number one, Fear of losing her: Most men will not attempt to kiss the girl because they have this thought running in their head saying "but wait... what if I kiss her now and she doesn't like it? I'm going to lose her, aren't I?", "what if this isn't the right time and I blow it?"... and on and on the thought runs and they never do it!!! They don't do it before it's time, while it really is time, not even when it's too late. The trouble with this thought is that it's based on a scarcity mentality that says "if I lose this girl, there won't be another one for months", when in reality you could be meeting 10-20 girls a day if you had the proper social skills (which are very learnable).

Number two, waiting for the signal: A lot of men will wait for a woman's signal before they attempt anything, and in fact most mainstream "dating" articles written by well-meaning but cluless women advise waiting for a woman's signal. The trouble with this is that men are notoriously dumb. Infact it has been proven recently in neuroscience that men have a TEN TIMES smaller capacity for social intelligence (reading cues and social situations). So any signal she gives, your mind is literally not built to read anyway. Attempt it anyway. Even if it's not the right time and she turns her head, guess what?! She will now respect you even more for having tried. She's now MORE likely to want it.

Number three, the man's need to be perfect and protect his ego: Men are interesting creatures. They seem to have this immense obsession with always needing to appear like they already know everything and never failing in public. Most guys feel that if they were to try to kiss a girl, and she dodged the kiss, that it means they're somehow "bad" or imperfect. No it doesn't! It simply means it wasn't the right time. Try again later or with a different girl. Don't tie your identity to outside events. Attempt it anyway. If you're a beginner and not experienced in kissing... guess what? You're likely to get it wrong the first dozen or hundred times... So what? Attempt it anyway. That's the only way you learn this stuff.

Number four, being emotionally attached to the outcome: This is related to the previous one. A lot of guys will go into an interaction with a woman with an outcome in mind, a goal of what they want to "get" or "achieve" with this girl, like for example "I have to kiss her by tonight", or "I want to take her home on the second date, right after my carefully crafted way of tricking her over to my place". Don't do it! To translate some "womenspeak" to you, this is what women mean when they talk about men "objectifying" them. Women are not an object or an immaterial "thing" you set goals for. Go into any interaction with a woman with no outcome in mind other than "having fun, and getting to know her". So how do you do it, without wanting to do it? To use use some new-agey terminology, you "allow" it to happen. You literally go into the situation with a mindset of "I just want to get to know this woman. I would love it if we made out or even had sex tonight, but I don't care either way. All I need is to have a great interaction, anything else is a bonus". Go in with this mindset, and let things unfold naturally. That way you will naturally find yourself going for the kiss, without fearing the outcome, positive or negative.

Ok, so I've teased you long enough with WHY you don't go for the kiss in the first place (which is 90% of the puzzle). How do you actually do it right? There are 2 elements to this:

1) Location

It's incredible how many guys get this stuff wrong. You have to realize that even if a woman's desire to be kissed at this moment right now is as strong as she has ever felt... if the location is not right... it's NOT happening! So what makes a location wrong? The most important of all are social and peer pressure. If this is to be your first kiss ever, the girl is going to feel very very uncomfortable being kissed in front of first and foremost her friends, and secondly, too many strangers. The solution is very simple, just "do isolation" (as the guys over in the seduction forums call it). Take her away from the friends, and do it. And "take her away" doesn't mean "the next town". It can be as simple as 5 feet away from the group you're all standing in, the couch on the other end of the room, the next room. If you're on a date in public, it can mean a bench on the other side of the park. The examples are non-important. Just remember the principle.

2) Timing

I am going to have to give you a huuuuuge dissapointment here. I can not teach you timing over a textual page on the internet. Nor can I do it face-to-face. Nor can anyone on this planet, male or female do it. The only way to learn "timing", and the exact moment to kiss a girl is -personal experience- To put it bluntly, what this means is that you will need to get your timing wrong a whole bunch of times. Please accept this right now and go Attempt it now! Stop searching for the perfect information. No one on the planet can give you a magical pill that will change this fact. You will need to get your timing wrong a lot of times. Go do it anyway!

p.s. she, and any other girl who witnessed that will respect you more for having attempted, even if they may not seem to show it.

Please, take this information, go out there and use it. Oh, and read this 2-3 more times. It's alot of information about how to kis a girl packed into one densely concentrated page.

Having the first kiss is like a bungee jumping ride. There?s this frightening feeling but still the urge to take it is more powerful and exciting. Panic and tension could only be gone once it has been tried. And after learning how to kiss for the first time, it can never be forgotten. No one ever perfected his or her first kiss the first time. Don't be disheartened if the first attempt was a disaster and anyone can keep this from happening if the right time, position, and place are secured. Check out the list of things one should remember before indulging into his or her first kiss: 10. Get some privacy. Being alone will give a moment that only the couple could remember. It must be a special time with no other people as this destroys the special element of the first kiss. In a party the best way to get by is to ask the other person if he/she would like some fresh air. A short walk can do the trick or just hang out where there are no other people to pry. 9. A breath of fresh air is a must. No one wants to kiss someone who smells like onion, right? If planning to go out on a date, expect to have that first smooch if it clicks. So bring on a breath spray or ready some minty gum. Make sure to avoid spicy meals, curry or anything that is high up with garlic. Go for food with lemon flavoring or sweets as these linger less in the mouth. Make that kiss as exciting and worth remembering but not the smell. 8. Choose the best time. Be specific with the time in mind. A perfect timing can give the first kiss the perfect moment. It could start with a casual conversation, eye contact and hola!! the right time to kiss. Take the opportunity, as it might not pass again. Try not to kiss if one is still trying to say something or looking for something in the purse or pocket. Neither would want to be caught exposed or unprepared for it will be a tongue-tied moment for both. Who would like to remember the bad timing instead of the kiss anyway. 7. Never ever ask for permission. Girls like it when a guy initiates the kiss, that is most specifically in romantic moments. Although, they don't want to be caught unaware, girls do love to be kissed spontaneously. Look for signs: leaning, smiling, lip biting, hair toss, etc. 6. Keep it cool. Never grab the other like a glutton. The whole first time kiss scene should be like a slow moving flick. Relax, enjoy, and savor the kiss while it is on going. 5. Don't kiss like a mannequin. Arms and hands should go hand in hand with the kiss. Nothing is sweeter than holding her shoulders, hips, or waist when kissing. Girls can use her fingers to passionately comb the guy?s hair while the other hand is touching the neck. Oh, can't wait to feel goose bumps. 4. They say that one should never trust a person who kisses with his or her eyes open. Anyway, it isn't romantic after all. Kiss with the eyes closed, feel the moment and try to get away from all distractions. 3. This one is for first time kissing guys. Imagine that the girl is just asleep. Anyone coming near a sleeping person wouldn't want to surprise and shock her, isn't it? Be subtle, don't kiss hard, feel the softness of each other?s lips. Be gentle when touching. 2. Oh boy the tongue! Watch out as neither one would like to cause asphyxia. Start with just touching the lips, instinct will lead the way. Don't try to force the tongue into her as it is not romantic and not a pretty sight either and? 1. Last but most importantly, keep saliva in control. Aside from choking, some are so turned off by slobbers. No one wants to end up having his or her date feeling exhausted and disgusted. Everybody who had their first kiss felt those little butterflies in their stomachs. It may not be that perfect, but it could be worth remembering and still be as romantic as ever.

Steps on how to Kiss..

introHow to Kiss

This is an instructable on how to kiss. Kissing can be a hard thing to do until you get comfortable doing it, and while nothing can fully prepare you for a kiss, this how-to will explain some of the basics of kissing a partner and explore some simple kissing do's and don't's.

Note: I am by no means a kissing expert. The information in this instructable is based upon experience and some simple research on the subject.

step 1Pre Kiss

The lead up to the kiss can actually be the most difficult part of kissing. Figuring out whether your partner is ready to kiss you or not can be a challenge of its own.

If you see one or a combination of these indicators, there is a good chance that your partner is thinking about kissing you.

eyes become soft and heavy

eye contact is made and sustained

head turns slightly

lips are licked or bitten

your partner makes physical contact with you beyond what seems appropriate for normal conversation (e.g. he or she brushes your hand, touches you on the shoulder or leg, or fidgets with an accessory)

easy conversation comes to a stop, but eye contact is not broken

your partner smiles in conjunction with any of the above behaviors

To give your partner the cue that you wish to kiss him or her, you can try one or a combination of these things.

soften your gaze by relaxing the muscles around your eyes, somewhat like smiling but without engaging your mouth

smile often, though

make eye contact and allow it to linger for a few moments longer than you normally would

find ways to subtly (but respectfully) touch your partner

If you think you are picking up some of these signs, but are still unsure if the person wants to be kissed then there is nothing wrong with just simply asking your partner if a kiss would be all right. Granted it breaks the mood a bit, and sensing the magic is always nicer than asking if it's there, but better to be sure your partner is on board for the kiss otherwise you might be heading for an embarrassing situation.

If you've assessed the situation, and it seems probable that a kiss is imminent, the next things to think about are timing and approach. The key to nailing the pre kiss is matching your partner's speed and intensity. The kiss is the first opportunity to physically connect with your partner, and so you want to meet him or her halfway.

Here are some steps you could follow as you go in for the kiss. Keep in mind that the kiss you share with someone is as unique as your relationship with that person, so follow your instincts and use the following as a rough guideline.

1. Establish a physical connection by placing your hands on your partner's body. Placement depends on the dynamic between you, you can softly touch the face, the back of the neck or the shoulders. Be gentle with your touch if this is the first contact you are making. Stay away from "high risk" zones on your partners body, as you just want to indicate that you are interested in kissing them, not give them a full body search.

2. Establish and maintain eye contact from this point on. The eyes are often a clear indicator if someone wants to be kissed, or is thinking about kissing you. Try to look at your partner with a deep, yet soft gaze. Use your eyes to send them a message that shows how you feel for your partner, e.g., "I care for you, I am on fire when I look at you, I want to kiss you."

3. As you lean in, you may want to tilt your body and head to accommodate your partner's positioning. One partner will have to make room for the other, or both partners can just slightly tilt heads in opposite directions. Basically you are just trying to avoid a nose collision as you get closer, so just pick a side to turn to and don't give it too much thought.

4. Gauge how quickly your partner is leaning in and try to meet at the halfway point between you, so neither person is overextended. Over/under extension can make one person feel like they are not getting met and are either too aggressive, or not engaged enough.

If you have come this far with your partner chances are you are going to kiss, or you have misread the entire situation and they are just leaning in to look at something stuck in your teeth.

If the first is true, then read on because it's time to pucker up and get on with THE KISS.

step 2Practice the Kiss

Once you're leaning in, things start to happen quickly. If you are nervous about the actual kiss, why not practice beforehand to hone your technique? An arm or mirror could serve as useful tools to self monitor the feel and look of your kissing style.

Rest assured, THE KISS is coming, but here it is broken down first, step by step so that you know whats going on when you see it at full speed with a partner in the next step.

Here is a head on view of a kiss. I am just practicing here, so it might look a little funny, but once your partner is sitting across from you and your lips meet theirs, it's H, O, T hot.

1. You are in the pre kiss state described in step 1 - your head is tilted, there is lip activity, your eyes are in a soft deep gaze and maybe there is some light physical contact.

You could open or close your eyes, though if you're nervous, closed could help avoid the deer in headlights look of fear. I like to start with mine open and close them just before lip contact.

2. Either you or your partner has shown that they would like to kiss. Start putting the pieces from step 1 together. Lean in and meet your partner halfway. Begin to pucker the lips by bringing them together, pushing them out, and applying just a faint hint of suction on your closed mouth to bring the cheeks slightly in.

Now is a good time to lick your lips if they aren't already moist.

Keep leaning in, remembering to tilt your head until you make contact with your partner's lips.

Remember not to forget about hand placement! A gentle touch to the back of the neck, the shoulders or your partners head is all you need. This can also help in guiding someone into the kiss if they are lost or are having trouble meeting you.

3. Your lips come to a full pucker position. They are soft, but not floppy. They can be fully formed and firm, but certainly not hard. This is an ambiguous state for any solid to be in - but these are your lips were talking about here - they can handle it!

Make contact with your partners lips.

If this is your first kiss, you don't want to linger too long, but you also don't want to just peck them and retreat.

Count "one-one thousand, two-one thousand" in your head before relaxing the pucker in your lips and beginning to pull your head away. You can hold the kiss like this for longer, but after 5 seconds or so should start think about ending this kiss. If you would like to keep kissing after that you can always lean in again and follow up the first kiss with a second, third or fourth kiss.

Remember to breathe through the kiss. It's all right to hold your breath for a short kiss, but for longer ones you are going to have to breathe while you are kissing. Since your mouth is occupied, you are going to have to use your nose. Just breathe normally and continue on with the kiss.

To end the kiss begin to lighten the pressure your lips are applying to your partners' and relax your puckered lips. As your lips relax they will separate and a small amount of air will be sucked into your mouth. This will create the kissing noise, or "smack" that is identified with a kiss.

At this point contact with your partner's lips has ended and its time to start thinking about giving them a little space and time to reflect about what just happened.

4. Move your head back slowly and begin to relax the muscles around your mouth. You can keep your eyes closed for a bit as you revel in the kiss and slowly return to your normal un-extended position.

5. You are now in the post kiss phase and if it was a good kiss, words won't do the feeling justice. If you and your partner liked what just happened you can follow up with more, or just enjoy what the two of you shared. If it was a bad kiss, you can try to make changes and give the kiss another go. If things can't be salvaged at that particular moment, don't force it - take a break and talk about it with your partner and try again after a few minutes or another day.

step 3The Kiss

Ok, it's time for THE KISS. Take all the elements from steps 1 and 2 and put them together. It's good to be methodical while practicing to kiss, but when it's time to do the real thing it should flow smoothly and come naturally. That means less step-by-step instructions, and more videos of the real thing.

Just a simple kiss.

Put a few of them together.

You can also touch your tongue to your partners lips ever so slightly. (This is not a French Kiss - just one method of placing the tongue towards the front of your mouth so you can just lightly brush your partner's lips upon contact.)

step 4Post Kiss

The post kiss is a lot like the pre kiss state, but more warm and gooey.

If you enjoyed the kiss show your partner that you liked it by smiling and/or holding their hand.

If you are going to kiss again keep things energized by maintaining physical contact with your partner even though you have pulled your lips away. For multiple kisses its ok to do the same thing over and over, but it's better to change things up a little bit. Here are some variables to think about modifying:

angle of approach

speed of kiss

length of kiss

kiss firmness/intensity

lip positioning (The first kiss is often a dead on approach, but offsetting one set of lips either up, or down can lead to a nice interlocking kiss where one partner's lips are nestled within the "lip valley" of the other partner's lips.)

hand placement

body placement

If you are done kissing for a little while just stare into your partners eyes and enjoy what the two of you just shared. Hopefully it will be the first of many and the twinkle in your eye as well as the smile on your face should make you feel like you are on top of the world.

step 5How NOT to Kiss

Kissing "don't's" are just as important as kissing "do's". Just as doing all the right things can make for a magical kiss, doing all the wrong things could seriously throw a monkey wrench into your kissing future.

So remember, don't:

try to suck the face off of your partner. Kissing is exciting, and there can certainly be an urge to latch on and suck, but try to resist, as it will probably upset your partner.

force your tongue onto the scene. The right time to use your tongue while kissing will present itself after a few kisses, a few minutes or a few days. Forcing it too early or being aggressive with your tongue before you or your partner is ready is not a good idea.

kiss your partner with a mouth full of saliva. Remember to swallow excess spit before locking lips with your partner. While this is more of a problem with French kissing, if the saliva were to somehow find its way out of your mouth during a regular kiss, it could be problematic.

kiss with bad breath or fuzzy teeth. Practice good oral hygiene before kissing and take a second to think about whether or not your lips and mouth are a nice environment to kiss. It's true that kissing someone who has eaten onions or garlic can be pungent - so watch out for kisses after meals, but often if both partners have had the same thing to eat neither of them will mind very much.

miss your partner's face or misalign and hit noses. It's not the end of the world if this happens, but a simple turn of the head or glance to make sure you are properly aligned can help you avoid this potentially embarrassing situation.

don't run into trouble with braces. Locking braces, cutting your partner, or just clashing metal is a real danger when you or your partner have braces. Kiss gently when you have braces and take special care not to link your braces onto theirs. Kissing with braces is most definitely possible and having them shouldn't keep you from being a great kisser.

Even if you do make some of these mistakes none of them are unrepairable. Remember, kissing certainly is a big part of becoming close with someone, but it is by no means everything. If you do happen to have a bad experience just take a second to compose yourself, and try giving it another shot.

How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time

Kissing a girl for the first time, whether it's your first kiss or just the first time you're kissing a new girl or girlfriend is an exciting prospect for most guys!

However, chances are that if your first kiss does not go well at all that it will be the first and last time you kiss that girl. You see, many if not most girls decide right after their first kiss whether they will ever kiss the same guy again in the future.

For many guys kissing a girl or getting to "first base" is often just a step towards getting more intimate with a girl. Girls on the other hand often often judge a guy by the way the kisses in deciding whether he will be a good partner.

Your first kiss does not have to be perfect from a physical point of view. If she has had other boyfriends in the past you don't need to kiss her like she has never been kissed before! It does not have to be a long and passionate kiss either. What is important though is that it has to be a positive and memorable experience for her, not one she would rather forget.

Before we look at some specific kissing tips here is a video that illustrates some common do's and don'ts of kissing a girl.Kissing Tips On How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time

Here are some specific kissing tips on how to kiss a girl for the first time. Although there is no substitute for experience the following tips should put you on the right track.

1. Girls are romantic at heart.

Try to make kissing her for the first time a special event. Buy her flowers or if you are short of money try to pick some flowers for her in a field or give her flowers from your garden.

Make sure to compliment her! Tell her she looks beautiful!

Act like a gentleman. Open the car door for her, pull out her chair for her if you go to a restaurant and let her walk through a door first. Be kind and considerate and she will love you for it.

2. Set the mood.

Choose a nice environment for your first kiss. Don't kiss her in a public place, if possible. You want her to be at ease and kissing her for the first time with her friends, your friends or complete strangers staring at you is not a good idea.

You want to have her full attention just before kissing her and also while you're busy kissing her. If it's at your house put on some nice background music, dim the lights and create a nice environment that will set the mood for kissing her.

3. Relax!

It's normal that you may be nervous before kissing her for the first time. But, do your best to relax. If you appear nervous or anxious you may send her the wrong body signals and create the impression that you're not comfortable being with her.

4. Make sure she is ready to kiss you.

Even if she enjoys your company and going out with you it does not necessarily mean she wants to kiss you or be in a relationship with you. She may just see you as a good friend!

And, even if she wants to be more than just friends it does not mean she is ready or willing to kiss you when you are. So, before kissing her for the first time you have to be sure she wants to kiss you as well.

5. Break the touch barrier.

It's much more difficult to kiss a girl for the first time that you have not even touched. If she is not willing to hold your hand or seems reluctant to do so it's a clear sign that she will more than likely not be willing to kiss you.

Try touching her a couple of times while talking to her such as briefly and casually touching her hand or arm while saying something and notice how she reacts. Does she feel comfortable being touched or does she pull away?

6. Lean in for the kiss.

When you feel the moment is right, look into her eyes or at her lips and lean forward to kiss her. Tilt your head slightly to the left or the right to avoid bumping noses and close your eyes just before your lips touch her lips.

Just give her a soft and gentle kiss on the mouth. Pull back for a second and if you feel like it and it seems as if she enjoyed it lean forward and kiss her again.

7. Deepening the kiss. (Optional)

Your first kiss does not have to be anything more than described above. However, if you want to you can deepen the kiss by gently nudging her lips with the tip of your tongue. Wait for her to open her lips slightly and use the front part of your tongue to caress her lips and tongue.

Don't just stick your tongue into her mouth and be careful not to push your tongue too deep into her mouth. You don't want to gag her!

As mentioned above, your first kiss does not have to be a passionate French kiss with a lot of tongue kissing and it does not have to be a long make-out session either. If you want more information on how to French kiss and how to make out, see how to kiss.Kissing Do's And Don'ts

Here are some common kissing do's and don'ts that you need to be aware of when kissing someone, especially if it's your first kiss.

1. Fresh breath.

Make sure your breath smells french! Taking her to a nice restaurant may be very romantic but kissing her after you have been eating garlic is not cool!

If you don't have the opportunity to brush your teeth before kissing her at least suck a mint or chew some gum to freshen your breathe before kissing her.

2. Don't grope her!

Girls do not like to be groped, especially not while kissing a guy for the first time!

Use your hands to hold her or to touch her face or hair and not to grope her.

3. Don't ask for permission.

Girls like confident guys. Don't ask her if you may kiss her! If you feel like kissing her and the moment seems right just do it!

4. Don't see how far you can get.

Kissing someone special for the first time should be a pleasant experience for both of you. The fact that she may be ready and willing to kiss you does not mean she wants to do anything more than just kissing. Don't try to see how far you can push her! Just enjoy kissing her!

If you follow the above kissing tips and advice on how to kiss a girl for the first time your first kiss should be great, special and memorable.

If you think that men are the only ones lusting after women you are wrong. Women too lust after men but the man has to be "lustable". You will find some men who are worshipped by their women and some whose girlfriend makes him hump through hoops! If you are the first kind, you don't need to read this article, but if you fall in the second category then read on as you will find out how you can get a girl to kiss you: Get those kissable lips Step one to getting a girl to kiss you is to have imminently kissable lips. No matter how much girls dig cowboys, when it comes to kissing, they will choose the metrosexual man any day! Take care of your lips! So to take care of your lips use a chapstick. If your lips are really chapped and hard cut, use a good dollop of Vaseline before the date night and brush gently with a baby toothbrush. You will have baby soft lips. But do take care that you don't give her competition in the beauty department. At the end your lips should look soft and moisturized. Build her interest When you meet her keep her interest alive. Women get stimulated by cerebral conversation. Try to find out about her interests and build your conversations around it. Try to keep conversations light and witty and do try to sound like an intelligent yet sensitive person. Be flirty While all the intellectual conversation is going on try to flirt a little. With flirting you are establishing a premise of something physical in your expectation. Be an ingenious, witty and charming flirt. Women find such men irresistible. Have good dental hygiene Bad breath can kill the most stimulating of all conversations. You can NEVER get a girl to kiss you no matter how good looking you are or how rich you are if you have bad breath. So take care of your dental hygiene. Make sure that you brush your teeth and floss before you head out for that date. Also remember that mouthwash is one of the most important inventions when it comes to keeping bad breath at bay! If you still don't feel confident enough about your breath, have some breath mints. Avoid the gum as they are not as effective as mints and a man chewing gum does not look like he is interested in getting kissed. Look at her lips Don't forget to gaze into her eyes while talking as this makes you look interested in her. But more importantly, keep glancing at her lips. This will send signals to her brain triggering the need to kiss you. Keep the touching light Keeping the touching light and easy makes sure that physical comfort that has been established. Lean into her slowly as if you mean to kiss her but move away slowly. As you build her anticipation her need to kiss you will become greater! Don't be nervous It's but natural to feel a little or a lot nervous when you are out on this mission. But make sure that you don't show your nervousness; instead project an image of the confident, interesting and sensitive man with élan and ease. You can be assured that by the time the evening is over your girl will have made the first move and will have kissed you! Now listen carefully- What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here ----- Feel free to use this article as long as the links are kept live.

French kissing is personal, its erotic and it 80% of women said they wish their partner kissed more. Furthermore 51% of women in a recent poll said that they had at some point in their life ditched their partner because they were a bad kisser! If you want to know how to give a mind blowing kiss and kiss with confidence, then here are some simple tips to make you a great kisser. 1. Relax and Concentrate If you are to give a great French kiss, you must be relaxed. One of the biggest turn offs is being kissed by someone who is tense and anxious ? the mood is immediately transferred to your partner and is a total passion killer. So relax your body and clear your mind so you can concentrate on only one thing ? the kiss itself. 2. Use Your Body As you can gather from point 1, you must relax and this means relaxing your body. You should also use your body get close to your partner and press yourself against them. Make sure you use your hands, to hold and caress your partner and touch their back and the buttocks. While a French kiss transmits your feelings through your mouth, you will add a lot to the experience if you show how much you want and desire your partner, by being close to them and caressing them. 3. Receiving and Responding Next, you need to tilt your head to one side and gently insert your tongue into your partner?s mouth and this is where the fun begins! There is actually no right way to French kiss ? the actual kiss itself depends on what you and your partner like in terms of tongue movement and pressure. Some people like lots of aggression and speed and others like slower gentler kisses and some of course like a combination of both. Start gently and see how your partner responds and simply go with the flow. French kissing should simply develop naturally and you and your partner will be transmitting what type of kisses you like. How they kiss you and how you kiss them will then flow naturally. No matter what type of kiss you are giving your partner, fast or slow, gentle or hard, you need to vary the technique. Slow down speed up and tease your partner by taking your tongue away and so on. If you add variety, you will add expectancy and excitement and remember, predictability in French kissing is a total turn off. 4. Breaks When kissing you will need to have breaks of air, but don?t let the passion die! Keep body contact keep stroking and caressing and target one of the best erogenous zones ? the neck. Kissing of the neck is one of the biggest turn ons for both men and women so get your partner moaning with pleasure by targeting this area. Another great area to target are the ear lobes. The ear lobes are a mass of nerve endings and nibbling and kissing them is again an immense turn on 5. The Perfect French Kiss Is different for everyone, but making the perfect French kiss is easy to achieve: Just relax, respond to what you receive, use your body and use breaks for air, to transmit your desire and passion. A French kiss should develop naturally and the above tips will ensure that it does and you will kiss with confidence.

The hardest thing to grapple with when you are dating is when to take that initiative and kiss her. It is a tricky affair, since you don't know what the outcome, and hurting her is something that you don't want to think about. Kissing the girl too early could suggest something vulgar and being insensitive, while kissing too late could make her conjure feelings of insecurity and low esteem. Do not forget that the first kiss will tell her many things about you, as well as hinting in certain terms what the future holds in your relationship. It is thus your prerogative to make sure that the kiss is the greatest and it will help all your kinds to be winners. Dating is all about timing, finding that important period to make that impression. This is the reason you kiss her at the opportune moment, and it is bound to be a major win, but you must know how to do it. Let it be a general rule to always kiss the girl, or any other girl in future when you can. It tells her that the dating relationship will not stagnate there since you are not that comfortable with carrying out some things. Making that move to kiss early will also clear the immense tension that is held up in the air. Once you depict to her how early that you can kiss and do it perfectly will help clear the air in your dating process, and she will not be taking your affairs skeptically. You must read between the lines whether she is ready and prepared to be kissed. Reading her actions and finding out whether she is absolutely ready to start kissing is all about feeling and being in tandem with the interaction and its intimacy. Check how comfortable her demeanor is when you are dating, more so when you are together in physical terms. Do not forget to observe her comfort when there is that intimate energy flowing between the two of you. The best way to hit a lot of points is by kissing her in one of the best ways you can think, which creates a very strong impression. Most women are in constant search of clues that will tell them how you perform in bed. Do not let the initial kiss be forced or awkward, since her mind will in an automatic reaction assume that it is the way you act in bed. She will evade you like the plague. If you have what it takes to depict to her how you can kiss in your dating process, and it has a tinge of passion and sensual feeling, her mind has not choice but conjure your performance in bed and how you will reign in that department. Do not forget that it is the small things that really matter. Small things like the way you kiss, and how you do it. Each good kiss means you are what you are saying you are. No one can argue about that. Play your cards fine in your dating relationships and you will be a sure winner.

You have to be able to read body language to see when a girl wants you to make a move. Then, you have to have the cajones to actually go in for the kill. Finally, most importantly, you have to know HOW to kiss a girl when you connect for the first time. The right situation is key. Some girls would never kiss you in a public situation. Some girls would never kiss you for the first time if it's not exactly the right time. Some will kiss you just because you made the move. Some will turn you down once to see if you try again. All of this is obviously personal preference, so some guidelines on how to kiss a girl are in order. Eye contact has been rated the number one way by women to create that spark before you kiss a girl. Make atleast a full hard one and a half seconds of eye contact. Next, look at the lips as you lean in (slowly). Make one last glimpse of eye contact before you close your eyes and lay your lips on hers. Please, for heaven's sake, don't go open mouth for the first kiss unless you're in the bedroom. Kiss her once, deep, passionately for one and a half seconds, then break and give a quick kiss. As you back away, look into her eyes and smile. That is how to kiss a girl for the first time. Now, none of this is useful if you can't time it correctly. More important than how to kiss a girl is when to kiss a girl. Seizing the moment is crucial, but how to recognize that moment? If a girl wants you to kiss her, she'll let you know - you just have to know what to look for. She'll lean into you and laugh and touch. Most importantly is touch. Any touch that doesn't seem accidental means she's into you. If she's made body contact with you or put her hands on you, then you know somewhere deep inside she wants you to kiss her. Make sure to make some eye contact to make sure. Lean in just barely into her bubble and see if she lets you in...if she does, a classy move could be to kiss her on the cheek as you both laugh at a joke. If it's ok to be in her bubble, it's ok to make your move....don't second guess yourself. Just make sure to follow the above tips on how to kiss a girl and you'll be fine.

How to kiss your partner romantically French kiss. Take her hand and look into her eyes, gently kiss her cheek and place her hand over your heart. Don't take your lover for granted. Be nice to them. They deserve it. Talk to her the way you would a colleague. Be kind, courteous and friendly. Kiss them for all the bad things that happened that day. When you look into their eyes, tell them how you feel deep down and gently kiss their cheek. Three little words: Three little kisses. (between the eyes, on the tip of the nose and the lips) Kiss your love from the toes up... but when you get to the head, dont kiss their lips until they are begging for it. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly. Kiss every part of their body. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone (just below the ear) and whisper "I love you." Kiss at every chance you get. Kiss/smell her hair. Kiss her stomach, especially if she is expecting. Make a practice of long kisses. Stage your own kissing marathon. Blow kisses. Give your love the ultimate kiss. Kiss quickly and tenderly while working on the chores. Pop a Hershey Kiss into your mouth before you smooch. Kiss each other's toes. At a formal event, take your lover's hand and kiss it. Celebrate even the very smallest occasions: the 1 year anniversary of meeting each other, the 100th Thursday since your first kiss... Know every anniversary: your first kiss, your first date, the first time they whispered "I Love You". Make a giant chocolate kiss by shaping homemade fudge in a funnel. Put red lipstick kisses on napkins you put in loved ones lunch. Greet your mate with Eskimo kisses. On a weekend, when they are sleeping in, sneak out and buy a small bouquet of roses. Set the table with the good dishes and surround their plate with the roses and place one on the plate. When you finish setting the table, wake them with a kiss and serve them breakfast. When your partner is totally not expecting it walk by them, and plant a hearty kiss right on their lips. Then tell them they were a victim of a drive-by kissing!! Kiss your life partner daily before you go to sleep even if your not on good terms. If you are unable to kiss today tomorrow you give two. During the Fall, why not find someone who is offering Hay rides. It's a good way to snuggle and steal a few kisses. Go to a Playground at night and take turns pushing each other in the swings. Then play kissing tag. That should keep you busy for the rest of the night. Pick out a word, one that is said a lot like "and." Then every time they say that word they have to give you a kiss! When you and your loved one are talking, kiss them before they finish their sentence. (but only when it's not something important... I.E. "Will you marry me?") Get a sexy shade of lipstick and put it on. Clean and kiss your guy's car window a couple of times and/or write a cute little message with the lipstick on the window (make sure to leave a paper towel in the front seat so he can drive safely!). When you are with your girlfriend or boyfriend for a date. After a while or so when he or she says something, kiss them before they finish their sentence : ) If you have a special someone, go to there bedroom window and do the whole Romeo and Juliet scene. They will die for it. Tap on their window(any tune will do) then surprise them with a rose or a kiss from you and tell them you love them. Experiment with different kisses. Get the book, "The Art of Kissing" and spend an evening trying all the kisses to find your favorites! Have public displays of affection! Give your partner a kiss every time you get in or out of the car. Say how much you love them in public places like over meal in a restaurant. Make out at the movies! :) Just have fun! Give your love an unexpected kiss! Kiss the back of their hand (it's a form of worship) and then roll their hand over and kiss their wrist. For their birthday kiss them as many times as they are old, and make the last kiss (their age) a very passionate kiss... (and donât for the extra one for good luck) When they are sitting in a chair, and you are up doing things, lean over the back of the chair and kiss their forehead. (itâs also a way to see if your noses fit together...they usually do :-)) Kiss your partner like you won't see them again. Start each day with a kiss and an I love you. End each day with a kiss and an I love you. Kill time by kissing. Give your partner a smile or soft kiss and just let them know you are there for them. Pick a magic word for the day and every time that word passes your lovers lips, they are responsible for a kiss. A kiss debt can be accrued that must be paid off by the end of the day! (Pick a word that is said often... like "the" or "of"...) Get one of those balls that expand and contract with very little effort... put it between you and your love (in your mouths) and go in for kisses. (its really fun... and stupid) If she is sleeping and you want to wake her up or donât really want to bother her... kiss her cheek. Pay attention to something other than her breasts, kiss her back, being sure to pay extra attention to her neck and shoulders, it drives her wild! When you and your love are talking and all excited and everything, suddenly out of the blue, put a finger on his lips and ask him to keep quiet and when he does so (surely all puzzled and everything) plant a soft kiss on his lips. It will surely make him feel tingly and besides..... there can be a lot in store for you too at the end of it. Remember if you want something like a kiss or sexual love you have to start first. When you are kissing, stop in the middle and give them a small kiss on the cheek. It really turns them on Decorate a room in your house with lot's of helium balloons and dangling ribbons, recreate the deco at your senior prom. Dress up in formal wear with your partner, maybe complete with corsage. Dim the lights and play 'your song' on your stereo. Sway in each other's arms, look into each other's eyes and pretend you're going in for your first kiss with your prom date. (If your real senior prom was a flop what better way to rewrite history? You can even have the song that you wanted played) Make a night of watching romantic movies with your love. Everytime two people kiss, try and imitate them. Test out each type of kiss and at the end of the night, pick your favorite and PRACTICE! Kiss your love at the corner of his/her mouth and gently suck on it. It is quite an unspeakable sensation. :) Tell him/her your love for him/her fill all the corners in his/her life. While in the water with your honey, hold hands, take a deep breath and go under. Then, with your other hand, trace their body until you find their lips and go in for the kiss. When your love is unsuspecting, tackle him or her down, and tickle them until they can't take any more and then plant a giant kiss on their lips. Go out for a drive at night and everytime you and your love pass a one-eyed (cars with one headlight) car you owe each other a kiss. When you want to entice your love, ask them if they want a lollypop kiss. When they say yes, Inform your love of the new law that passed. That is, whenever you drive under a yellow light, the driver owes the passenger a kiss. Then, follow through! Take a deck of 52 cards. Assign each card a thing to do. For example, Aces get a kiss. Shuffle the deck and spread the cards out. You and your honey take turns drawing cards. What ever card says to do your honey must do. Kiss your love whenever you think about it. If you and your date are stuck inside because of the rain.. Try to talk your date into playing outside in the rain and if they refuse (for the guys) simply pick them up and carry them outside. Frolicking in the rain makes a great time to steal a kiss or two! One person eats a piece of chocolate and the other person eats a piece of mint. Then they French kiss... mmmmmm. When your love is unsuspecting, tackle him or her down, and tickle them until they can't take any more and then plant a giant kiss on their lips. Kiss your love at some totally random time... When they ask "What was that for?"... say just because... When you are at a party or the mall or something and see your love, go over and kiss them, right away, then say "Oops....wrong person, sorry", and walk away, see what they do. Do pushups over your girlfriend and ever time you go down, you kiss her. Don't forget kissing burns calories Stuff a piece of jello in your mouth and kiss your dearest. You'll be able to experience the most sensual kiss, while you and your partner's tongue fiddle with that piece of Jello. While you and your lover are sitting together, pretend that you heard something and look around. "Did you hear that?" you ask. "Hear what?" they reply. While they look... lean over and kiss them. "Oh guess it was nothing!!!" When your love wants a kiss, get close enough to where they can barely feel your lips, then when they try to move in to get it, pull away so that they have to pull closer for it. After sucking on a lemon, kiss your love. This isn't the sweetest kiss in the world, but it's guaranteed to make your love pucker for more!!!!!!!!! Take a strawberry, place half of it in your mouth and your love is to bite the other half for a tasty kiss. Purr like a kitten and rub your face up against your love when you pass over your love's lips suck/kiss your love while you purrrrrrrrrr......... (only girls do this...) Take some Kool-Aid, and put a different flavor on each of you and your love's tongue. Then have the sweetest french kiss you'll ever receive Slice up a water melon in nice chunky bits. Place a piece between your teeth and let your loved one eat off it. When you've finished each your half, let your lips meet in a wet and juicy kiss. When you are at an amusement park with your love, go on a ride that will turn you upside down. Once you're upside down, kiss your love and don't stop until you're upright again. When you and your love are in "that mood," lean over and lightly rub your nose on their cheek (very lightly), then look at your love and smile, then kiss either side of his/her mouth. This makes for wonderful, romantic kiss. If you're going on a long trip, take a bag of Hershey's Kisses to your girlfriend/boyfriend and tell them that you hope these make up for all of the kisses they won't get. A very sweet jesture. While you love is still asleep softly kiss their fore-head or cheek, then whisper a good morning in their ear. When you are kissing, spell your partners name with your tounge. When you and your partner start to have an argument move up close to him and kiss him it is sure to make you both forget what you were arguing about. It is a sure way to make sure arguments don't last long at all. Let your love catch you staring longfully at their lips. Tell them you have had a deep craving for their kisses all day. Then "devour" their mouth in a hungry desire-burning kiss. You need to get a box of Hostess's Powder doughnuts. Then you and your significant other both eat one and then have fun kissing (and licking) the powder off one another's lips. One day I saw these really awesome fake flavored lips at a party store. They were only like a buck or two so I got them and as soon as I saw my boy, I put them on and kissed him! He loved the strawberry taste! Have a staring contest. The first one to blink losses and the winner has to kiss the other person ! Ask your love to just sit there while you kiss him/her. Being inactive will drive your love crazy and they'll start thinking "enough of this one-sided kiss stuff." And soon it will turn into something very passionate and two-sided! Guys: Don't try to jam your tounge through your girlfriend. Make kisses romantic, and extensions of your soul. Take the kiss slow, and try to make them the most pleasurable for both of you! Sit in a quiet spot (preferrably next to a roaring fire) and make up your own stories. Include references to your first date, first kiss, and of course, use yourself and your love as the main characters. Try kissing your partner from head to toe. Start kissing every single spot on their body. Take your time, gently kissing and noticing their reaction, that way you will notice those sensitive spots. With some nice Jazz playing in the background, take your lady love's hand and and kiss it on the back of her hand between the thumb and forefinger. While you are kissing, hum along with the Here is a sure way to get a kiss from your loved one. Go to the nearest pizza place and have them make a pizza in the shape of a heart and cut the tomatoes to say "I love you". They are sure to thank you with kisses. Have you and your love both eat a different flavor of popcicle. Then start kissing and dive into the mixed flavors with your tongues! Have a stop watch and try to maintain your kiss for longer than a minute. Keep training and move up to 5 minutes, then 10 minutes, and up to 25 minutes and go that extra mile. Never forget the goodnight kiss and always say "Sweet Dreams and I Love You."

If you?re looking to learn how to kiss a girl, believe it or not, it?s really very easy. As a matter of fact, every kiss can be broken down into three phases?the pre kiss, the kiss and the post kiss. Each part of the phase is just as important as the one before or after it. In this article, I?m going to go over these three phases and give you a general idea of how to go about each one. Hopefully, this will help you on your way to becoming a great kisser. The pre kiss is when you look into your girl?s eyes. It is extremely important that you get this part down cold. The reason is not so obvious so let me explain it here. How you look into a girl?s eyes will greatly affect how she will receive the kiss. If you look deeply into them and show genuine interest in your girl, this will heighten the excitement level on the other end. This will, in turn, increase the pleasure of the actual kiss. The kiss itself has to be done just right in conjunction with the pre kiss look. For example, if you look into your girl?s eyes lovingly, then you want the kiss to be that kind of kiss?sweet and gentle. However, if you give your girl that look (you know the one I mean) where they?re thinking that the kiss is leading up to a lot more, then that?s the kind of kiss you want to give. If the two phases don?t match, there is a disconnect and the experience is not going to be a good one. Finally, there is the post kiss phase. This is similar to the pre kiss as you are again looking into your girl?s eyes. If your girl is then interested in getting another kiss (assuming the first one was good) she will let you know. This is how YOU will know that you?ve done a good job on all three phases. The last thing you want to do is kiss your girl and then walk away and turn on the TV. This is a REAL turn off. If this seems all too easy, it is. Kissing shouldn?t be rocket science. Truth is, it should be the most natural thing in the world. Problem is, so many people get so hung up on technique that they just don?t get the emotional part of it.

So you want to know how to kiss a girl and have her knees buckle? I will lead you in this article in accelerating your skills as a kisser. Most men have not taken the time to study the fine art of kissing a woman. To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you. If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you. Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing. After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you. Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%. Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her. One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention. People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed. The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss. Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes. Secondly, people who are like each other "like" each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss. She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head. Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she's putting on your lips. Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:

Physical contact between your girlfriend and you is very important to maintain a healthy relationship. Kisses and hugs will show that both of you are still deeply in love with each other. But when one of you feels that the other half does not show romantic gestures very often, it may cause him or her to lose self-esteem and confidence in the relationship. Therefore, let met share with you some of the ways to maintain the romantic gestures between you and your girlfriend during relationships. 1. Show her affection, when walking in the mall, hold her hand. When you greet her, give her a kiss to show her you care about her. Snuggle next to her on the couch, with your arm around her, and your fingers playing with her ear lobe, or her neck. When you give affection, you will get it. 2. Before you get affection from her, you must give it to her first. Do not wait for her to do it first just because that you cannot put down your ego. 3. Be lovable so as to make her want to be around you. Have a good sense of humor. Discuss things that you both have in common. 4. Ask her for a kiss as this is a sure way to get one from your girlfriend. 5. Compliment her when she does something nice. Do not just be false in your words. Be honest and she will enjoy you more. It is a normal act that is displayed when one truly cares for the other. Just be yourself, be fun to be with and enjoy her company. Maintaining romantic gestures during relationships is definitely a great way to create and maintain the sparks between you and her.

It is an experience that most people would remember: their first French kiss. Some people would say it was a great experience while some would prefer not to mention it. But, we all know that French kissing is a very delicate and sensual experience. Research has said that women's lips are one of their erogenous zone, so it's important for men to leave a lasting impression with women. And if you French kiss her like no one else, you'll most likely to kiss something else of her next. The skill of kissing does not simply consist of knowing how to move your tongue inside a woman's mouth without hitting her tonsils. It involves the entire mouth - the lips, tongue, teeth, and the rest of the body. Here are some basics: 1) Give the lady a hand. Position your hands on her body while kissing her. Hold her face firmly but gently as you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck on her lips. This will definitely make her toes curl. Also, try to gently pull her hair back from the back or slightly squeezing the part of her body that is located right under her breasts (her ribs). This could make for some very enticing kissing sessions. 2) Pay attention to the way she kiss. People often give out what they would like to receive, so pay attention to the way she kisses you. That could be an indication of the way she wants you to kiss her. Does she bite on your lips or try to gently suck all the saliva off your tongue? Reciprocate by doing the same. She will love you for it. 3) Tell her what you like. Does your loved one kiss you like she's trying to suck the life out of your body? Does she kiss too fast, too slow, or without using her tongue? Try not to tell her what you don't like, but rather what you do like. That way you won't hurt her feelings. 4) Control her mouth. The next time you kiss her, hold her face with your hands tenderly and kiss her the way you would like to be kissed. If she is not turn on by this, then your sensual tongue will surely do the trick. 5) Make it long-lasting. Women loved long, slow, juicy, and enticing kisses. Your partner will definitely feel your passion through one of those prolonged tender kissing moments. Just like in the movies, kiss her hard and deep. Now that you've discovered the basics of kissing, let's move on to some ways to make her think and want to kiss you all the time, hopefully. Here are some simple tips that can make you the ultimate Casanova: 1) Suck on her tongue. Turn your mouth into a soft suctioning device on her tongue. Suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck on a woman's clitoris. 2) Lick her lips with your tongue. Lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish fashion. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your mouths. 3) Suck on her lips. If licking her lips quickly makes her wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips. Do it one at a time as no one wants to feel as though they've stuck their mouth inside a vacuum. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don't get too rough or she will get turn off and pushes you off. You would not want that to happen, do you?

A kiss is a sign of affection. We give kisses to family, friends and even pets. A French kiss, on the other hand, is the kind we only reserve for people we are attracted to. This kind of kiss involves the tongue, communicating passion and sexuality to a partner. If you have never done it before, though, the act can be quite daunting. But if you are reading this, then you are certainly curious about it or plan to do it in the future. There are no hard and fast rules about French kissing a girl, but here are easy ways to go about it. Preparation - One way to be prepared is to keep a fresh breath. Nobody likes kissing somebody with dog breath. Avoid food with lots of onions, garlic or other smelly stuff. If you think keeping a Chapstick in your pocket is emasculating, then just think about the benefits. If your lips are dry and cracked, then that makes kissing you a little uncomfortable. Find a partner - Sometimes, this part is not so easy. But if an opportunity comes up, why not go for it? You will just have to make sure that you interpret her signals correctly and that she is as ready as you are to go the next level up from a peck on the cheek or lips. Start off slowly - A French kiss starts off as a normal kiss. In a normal kiss, you and your girl's lips should already be slightly open. Try to be gentle as much as possible, to begin with. You should be able to lose yourself a little and close your eyes. It is generally considered rude to stare at your partner in the middle of a kiss. Mirroring - If you are ready, make the transition by doing open-mouth kissing. If your partner starts doing the same, then you can test if she is ready by lightly touching her lips with your tongue. If she stiffens, then maybe she is not ready yet and you just continue with the open-mouth until she is. If she responds with her tongue also, then you can continue gently touching the opening of her lips and tongue with your own tongue. Try to mirror her actions, together with stroking her face and hair gently. Practice - If you keep practicing with the gentle French kissing, then you will know all the tricks in no time. The key is being sensitive to your partner and making sure that you both enjoy the experience. Now listen carefully- What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here ----- Feel free to use this article as long as the links are kept live.

In this article you are going learn the secrets that the best kissers have in common and how to kiss a girl so that she thinks that you are one of the best kissers that she has ever kissed. Learning how to kiss well is a skill that most men have not taken the time to really master. To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you. If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you. Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing. After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you. Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%. Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her. One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention. People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed. The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss. Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes. Secondly, people who are like each other "like" each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss. She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head. Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she's putting on your lips. Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations: There's the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip. There's the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip. There's the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching. There's the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted. The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other. As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute. Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it's a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she's doing. Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other. Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment. Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration. If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth. Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips. Allow her to start dancing with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you. Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance. If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper. There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, "I absolutely love kissing you", or "You are such an incredible woman", or "You are so yummy, I just want to devour you", etc. When you say these things in your head or to her it's going to magnify the potency of the kiss manifold. This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you'll know what I mean. This is what will allow her to sometimes swoon and have her knees buckle a little bit during the kiss, because you are creating the energy of pure love while mirroring exactly the way she desires to be kissed and more. To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Caress her cheeks tenderly when you take a pause in kissing her before going in to kiss her again. Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her. Coordinate the way you kiss her with how you masterfully touch her face, hair, neck, and back to create incredibly delicious sensations for her. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her. Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures. Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you're building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time. Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again. Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman. Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss. The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life. Savor every moment of the kiss with her and have this naturally lead you to deeper sensual and sexual exploration that will blow her mind. Mastering the fine art on how to kiss a girl is only the tip of the iceberg on bringing your woman absolute incredible pleasures that she does not even know is possible. Copyright (c) 2008 Neo Young

Have you ever kissed a girl before and it just seemed completely awkward? You put your lips in one place and she puts her lips in another and before you know it your teeth crash together, and than you try a little tongue action only to choke her to death, and than all of a sudden you make this loud disgusting slimy noise that just blows the whole mood. Well than you came to the right place! I?m going to walk you through several steps you must take to ?kiss a girl and drive her crazy?. Step 1. So you?ve been on several dates with somebody and now your ready to take the next step. To ascertain the understanding that a kiss is about to presume amongst both parties, use the skillful technique of touch and whisper. Playfully touch or graze her arm (not her hand) and say something funny, romantic or poetic in her ear to break the ice. You could also find something funny about something or someone on the street and whisper in her ear ?hey look at that funny guy over there?. This will distract her from the fact that you are like a few inches away from her ear. Now once she turns her head back after giggling for a second, you can sort of get the signal. This works as an indirect approach. This will warm the plate and send a more definite signal that she wants to kiss you. Step 2. IMITATION: This is the most important step of all steps. As you slowly touch her lips, gently imitate her movements ?equal? to her intensity level. Pay careful attention to the way she moves. You don?t want to come in too aggressive as this may cause her to lose trust in you and be turned off. I know, I know? some women like it rough but trust me, the one that you want, wants it nice and easy. This will make her feel very relaxed around you. Women have this preconceived notion and fantasy of how their knight in shining armor will sweep them off their feet with a kiss. Following there movement is basically following how they want it. In a way, they are subconsciously showing you how they want to be kissed. So by imitating her technique you are essentially being the person she fantasizes about. Step 3. RELAX: Don?t tighten up your mouth, jaws and tongue. Keep your mouth area nice and loose. Step 4. OPEN OR CLOSED: Pay attention to whether or not she kisses you with her eyes open or closed. If she has her eyes open then she is doing either 1 of 3 things. 1.) She is losing trust in you 2.) She is self conscious about the way she is kissing and is watching your reaction 3.) Your breath smells like hot garbage and she feels very uncomfortable. In any case, you must step up your game plan, modify your technique or grab a breath mint if you fall into scenario 3. Remember you want to make her feel that she kisses just as good as you whether she does or not. I find it rather creepy when you open your eyes during a kiss only to find her staring at you. Step 5. LEADERSHIP: Lead her as if you were doing the samba or salsa but very subtly and gently. Remember you have to keep in mind that women want a strong leader. Slowly transition yourself to the next position. For example: Gently place your two lips on her bottom lip and slowly graze a little tongue underneath the bottom lip. Then allow her to take the initiative to return the favor if she desires. Step 6. HOW LONG? Well of course there really is no set time limit but it is always good for you to pull away first before she does. You have to do it in a way that does not make her feel that she did not perform well. Step 7. WHEN DO I STOP AND WHAT DO I DO AFTER? So right before your lips start to get numb slowly disable your lips from hers just as seductive as the way you were kissing her. Your body language tells everything so make sure you smile and blush for her. Tell her how good of a kisser she is. Then turn away and start an interesting intellectual conversation. Why would I want to do this? Women like a man who is intelligent, can hold a conversation, and more importantly has ?strong will power and self control?. It will leave her hypnotized, mesmerized and make you look like an enigma. Never ask her if you were a good kisser. You should be confident enough to know that you are the best. Well that?s all I have for you today folks but remember that life is short and a kiss is just a kiss.

When you are out on a date for the first time you would like to hit the sack with the girl by the time the night is over. But the truth is that you are nervous and apprehensive about even getting a kiss from her leave alone sacking up with her. So here are a few helpful tips that will help you to get to French kiss a girl easily before the evening is up! Get ready for the action Take care to dress carefully but begin with taking a nice hot shower so that you clean up good. Use good cologne but don't go overboard as too much of cologne or perfume can give a headache. Also keep your lips well moisturized and chap free. You should aim at looking naturally sexy, well groomed and well dressed. By doing so you shall be proving visual stimulation for the woman as she will not be interested in kissing a guy who is sloppy and smells bad! Take care of your breath Bad breath can be a mood killer! You can rest assured that if your breath smells bad the girl will not come anywhere close to you leave alone let you French kiss her. So use breath mints to have minty fresh breath! Use these mints before you meet the girl but don't keep popping them while you are with her as that sends wrong signals to her. Make the evening interesting To be able to get to French kissing you will have to work a bit hard and make the evening interesting. Take interest in what she likes and what her interests are and build a strong and intellectually stimulating conversation. Be witty and make her laugh. You will get brownie points if you make her feel that you are genuinely interested in what she has to say. Gaze into her eyes, casually touch her hand a little and look at her lips. Send out the signals that you find her enthralling intellectually and physically. Be charming and take her permission Women love gentlemen. So be a little old fashioned but exceedingly charming and take her permission to kiss her. Say something like, "You are so beautiful that I cannot help but kiss you. So may I?" This will be a surprise for her and a very gentlemanly gesture from your side. Don't rush for the kiss When she says yes, don't lunge at her. Start slowly and stop close to her lips for just a second before you kiss her. This will help in building the excitement and will also build her desire to get kissed. Kiss her first with your mouth closed slowly and gently and then stop but don't move away. Kiss her again slowly in the same way. This will make her feel comfortable with you and will help her ease up. Don't play tonsil tennis After the second kiss move away for just a bit and see if she leans on to you. If she does give her a few more teasers before you actually kiss her. Build her anticipation but don't delay so much that she loses interest and pulls away. Slowly part your lips and let her be the one to take the initiative of introducing the tongue. When she does so, you are free to do the same. But don't begin to play tonsil tennis. Be gentle and sensual and soft yet masculine! The evening will get a lot more eventful than what you had anticipated Don't grope! If you want the French kissing to continue and the evening to be a lot more eventful don't even try to grope her while kissing. Don't envelop her in your embrace and kill her of asphyxiation! Keep the kissing slow and brief so that the anticipation keeps building up! Now listen carefully- What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here ----- Feel free to use this article as long as the links are kept live.

How to get her to kiss you on the first date is a big challenge for men. Many of them make all the right moves, follow the tips of conversation to break the ice on the first date, but that does not mean ending up kissing the girl. It requires a really focused girl approach where you not only make all the right moves but also create the atmosphere where she will be forced to succumb to your charms. Watch for telltale signals How you act on your first date will determine whether you can get the first kiss and it also depends on your attitude. You may be unaware but she could be expecting a kiss. Many men miss the telltale signals of a willing woman wanting to be kissed and leave her miffed and annoyed at the entire dating event at the end of it all. How to approach her and create the environment where it would be natural for both of you to kiss? Well, that?s a million dollar question that has always bothered men out on their first date. While some of them rush into it and spoil the whole show, others miss out signals that are loud and clear. But loud and clear signals are not always there. You got to pick up the small nuances and the subtle changes in mood and behavior that signals you to make your move. Usually, the moment comes when you finish your dinner and drop her. The moment of parting is the best time to make your move as it is the time not to seduce women, but to open the flood gates of raw emotion for another day. But who knows? Both of you could end up in bed on the very first date if you can craft your moves carefully by knowing how to approach a woman on the first date. Leaving her home is the moment of parting and the reaction would depend largely on how the date went in the first place. The date should be enjoyable If you can attract women on the very first date, you could have a great chance of kissing her on the very first date. It could be in the car or when you leave her at the door. Look at her eyes and watch for telltale signals. Does she want you to hold her and say good bye? It depends on how you can carry yourself during the crucial parting moments when the date is over. But you can be sure that kissing can be easy if the date was well and she enjoyed the conversation after you managed to trigger her pleasant memories and made her feel delighted. It is only when she finds you interesting that she will pull down her guards. If she had enjoyed your company there is every chance you can kiss her on the first date. Try to do the parting bit close as that?s the way how to get her to kiss you.

Who knows how to kiss a girl better than ... another girl? Gentlemen, you know exactly what I know--a woman's lips are softer, smaller, more beautiful than your own, and they draw us in with the desire to touch, kiss, and make her want to lean in closer. And those women's lips have their own needs, which are not exactly the same as yours. What I've gathered from talking to scores of women about their experiences with boyfriends and potential boyfriends--even with their husbands--is that many men would benefit from a few instructions from someone who's been on both the giving and the receiving end of kissing women's lips.

1. Relax. No, I don't mean stop the sweaty palms, the beating heart, the worries in your head about how she'll respond to the first kiss--I mean relax your lips! Just like you, a woman appreciates that first soft touch. If your pucker-muscles are already in gear, she'll feel like she's run into a wall. Will she notice? If every other man she's ever dated did the same, what she'll notice is that you have started the kiss out right where all others failed.

2. Lips are not always the best first "target." I love to kiss my girl just above the middle of her eyebrows--as if there's something special about that spot, as if I've studied her entire face and found something special about every bit of it. Holding her close, lean in (the target is obviously not her lips--so she's not tense) and place a kiss almost as soft as a butterfly, then back out again, and make eye-contact. Other spots go well for "first-contact," too. Think about the "slow-dance kiss"--that one where you're cheek to cheek and you turn your lips up against the softness of her cheek--was it a kiss, or not? It doesn't matter, but it makes her feel good. Don't kiss the tip of her nose the first time around, though--it's the sort of thing you do to a child, not a woman.

3. Go slowly. Once you've reached her lips, spend a little time letting those soft lips of yours brush against hers. There's a reason "his lips brushed against hers" is a phrase found in many romance novels--that slowness thing is a lot more desirable than "a moment later, she knew she'd had a complete dental exam by his tongue."

4. Is it Tongue Time yet? Try lip-nibbles first. Use your (relaxed!) lips to nibble or gently tug at hers. This gives you both a chance to open your mouths just a little bit--remember, she's wondering if you're going to kiss (or if this will be a good kiss) too. An open mouth IS a step in the process and it deserves it's rightful place between the closed-mouth kiss and the more intimate kiss. If her mouth doesn't open--back off. Look into her eyes again. See how she appears to be feeling, and if you're not sure ... huh ... ask. In a gentle voice.

5. Okay, you seem to have the go-ahead for tongue--perhaps she even initiated that part. One very important thing to hold in mind, gentleman, and please, I'm not trying to insult you--it's just that I've heard it too many times! Your tongue is not your ... you know. Thrusting it in and out is not sexy--not now, anyway. (When things are a little more lusty? Maybe. For a short time.) Dart your tongue in and out, once, pause, do it again. Get inventive--take her lip between your tongue and lip, gently, and let it slide free. Then go for it ... gently.

6. Listen. From here on out, it's up to you. Yep, the build-up is all I can tell you about, because from there, it's all about listening to her. Does her breathing speed up or slow down? Tiny little noises in her throat? On the other hand, is she trying to please you? If she seems aggressive, maybe she is, but maybe she's just trying to be to you what her last boyfriend expected her to be--a tongue sucking servant to his ham-handed, infantile techniques. If it's a first kiss and she's not taking your lead by going slow, do your best to check in with her, and make sure she's going fast / harder because she wants to. (This I know to be easier for women to do with other women--can't help you there. Good luck.)

7. When to stop? Well, let her take the lead at any point in that, but you might want to think of this as a minute-long pulse. Come in close, open-mouth, then tongue, then enjoy for a minute ... then gradually back out. If she really wants to kiss for longer, she'll let you know! But no one's nerves are going to stay sensitive for long under the same stimulation--she'll probably feel more stimulated if you take a break, take a breath, hold her close and / or look into her eyes. By all means, go in for another kiss again--but this time, you can go straight to steps 4 and 5.

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If you find that you're in a long kissing-only make-out session, you might want to throw in a little worship of her entire beautiful face. Kiss her eyebrows, her forehead, her earlobes. Kiss her cheekbones, the smile-line at the corner of her mouth. Take your time--her lips will be all the more eager when you finally get there. When you're going into a very slow love-making session, and you have a moment where you're leaning over her, both of you ready to kiss, run your tongue against the edge of her lips so lightly that all you touch is the tiny hairs that grow at the edge. It's very stimulating.

There are a lot of dating advices on how to kiss properly. But some of the guys out there are looking for advices on how to get your first kiss, before moving into the techniques of kissing. Getting your first kiss is not hard at all, if you know how to ?ask? for it. When it is the first time that you are kissing a particular girl, you will need to use the right strategy so that you can get away with that lucky kiss. So what exactly you must do to get the first kiss? The key is to subtly let her know that you are thinking about kissing her. You do not just ask a girl for a kiss directly. Gaze at her, and make her get the idea, and she will be the one who starts to think about kissing. You can start by making a simple move to get both your head close together. You can simply just stroke her hair, and tell her how soft and silky her hair is. This is a sure way to get your head close to her. Once you start stroking her, look at her reaction. If she is turning you away, you can move on to the next step. Gaze into her eyes and talk to her. While you are talking to her, look down from her eyes to her mouth and back again a couple of times. In this case, you are letting her know what is going on in your mind, and your move will not be unexpected. If she still does not move away, is game on for you. Now, move your head in and kiss her gently, and remember to make the first kiss soft. Once she have received your first kiss, you can slowly bring it further to enjoy a romantic kissing session.

When we are little kids, we use kisses throughout the day - we blow kisses to someone, brush our mouth against mommy's cheek, give a smacking kiss to our pet or favorite toy, but all of this does not even compare to the real adult kiss between two people. It is where the most interesting part begins - insecurities and fears related to not being able to kiss well. Allow us to let you in on a secret, even grown-up and experienced people are still afraid of that, since each person is individual and what one person likes might not attract another one, therefore a person learns to kiss their whole life. So what is the most important in the art of kissing? No matter how you look at it, there is just one answer - to listen to and feel your partner. Even if you have absolutely no skills at all, when you gently touch the lips of the person you love for the first time, the desire to please them leads us to the heavenly bliss of the kiss. In order to master your technique of the kiss, you should pay attention to the romantic melodramas. Pay attention to how the actors kiss, try to put yourself in their shoes, feel the touch of the other person's skin. After practicing in the dreamland, you can do a really good job of replaying the kisses with the person you love. At the same time you should not be creating certain templates, since you will have to improvise no matter what, based on how your partner reacts to your touch. Start with making eye contact and then move your gaze to your partner's lips. Make sure to angle your face, otherwise your nose might get in the way and prevent you from being able to have a deep and smooth kiss. As you approach for the kiss, close your eyes. Start off with a gentle kiss with your mouth only slightly opened. A French kiss is an open-mouth one, but it should be a shared decision. Open your lips slowly so that your partner's lip goes between yours, then change it - if you were kissing their upper lip, switch to the lower one. As you are re-locking your lips in this fashion, slightly brush your tongue across your partner's lips. If they respond with their tongue, then you have your "go ahead" for the French kiss. If both of you are enjoying the open-mouth French kiss, you can try exploring with your tongue and pushing it a little farther into your partner's mouth. Be careful though not to stick your tongue too far as it can actually be rather unpleasant. Start out slowly and take time to explore each other's mouths. And don't forget about your hands - everything that the touch of your lips did not say, may be added with the gentle stroking of the hair and shoulders, and touching of the neck and hands. Normally you would want to start with your hands on your partner's hips and slowly move up to their back, and on to their face and hair. If you want to show your partner that you are comfortable with them, you can just stroke their shoulders while you are kissing. A big turn on is putting your hands on your partner's face or wrapping your arms around them in an embrace. Keep in mind that everyone kisses differently and enjoys different things, therefore there is no set "right" way to kiss. What makes a good kisser is the ability to read and respond to the partner's body language. Make sure you are always alert for the clues your partner might be giving you as far as what they like or dislike and adapt to those sign accordingly. If your partner seems uncomfortable at any time, be sure to take it down a notch and take it slow. And on the contrary, if you hear your partner moaning with pleasure, take a note of what it is you are doing as they are obviously enjoying it. And finally there is a checklist you should always go through before you even think about kissing anyone. Make sure your breath is fresh. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than stinky breath. Dress well, do not wear untidy clothes and look scruffy. Keep your hands and tongue in control and do not go overboard the first time you kiss or you will never see them again. Be confident, it will reflect in the way you kiss. And once again, this cannot be stressed enough, read your partner's signs and respond to their body language. Remember, kissing requires practice. You will get better as you kiss more. And the more practice you have with the same person, the more comfortable you will get with each other and learn what each of you likes and dislikes, which will allow you to create your own style that works perfect for both of you.

Did you ever see that episode of Golden Girls where Rose meets this guy who she doesn?t remember from many years ago and finally at the end of the episode, he kisses her and she finally remembers where she knew him from. After he leaves, Blanche thought it was sweet that a kiss unlocked Rose?s memory, to which she said, ?Nobody can forget a kiss like that. He didn?t know how to kiss a girl then and he doesn?t know how to kiss a girl now.? The truth is, not everybody is a natural kisser. Some people, unfortunately, are just flat out awful at it. And it?s sad because it really doesn?t have to be that way. Kissing is not just in the technique but in the approach as well. How you go about giving the kiss is almost as important as the kiss itself. First thing you have to do is relax. You can?t kiss well if you?re tense. There is a difference between being excited from the anticipation of the kiss and being nervous about it. If you?re not relaxed, you?re not going to kiss well. Your lips will tighten, your face will tighten, and the results are going to be less than good. Next thing you want to do is take your time. As I said, the anticipation is a great part of the experience. The longer you take (no, you don?t want to drag it out into a marathon warmup) the more excited your girl is going to become in anticipation as well. This does a lot to overcome a lot of flaws in the actual kiss itself. True, you don?t have to be a master tactician if you build up enough anticipation. Finally, when you kiss your girl, you don?t want to jam your face into her. You want to be gentle. Forget about those manhandling kisses that you see in the movies. The only thing they?re good for is breaking your girl?s neck. You want to be gentle about the whole thing. This will bring about the best results. It?s true, not every guy knows how to kiss a girl. You?d think it would be a natural thing, but it?s not. Nerves play a bigger role in the problem than just about anything else. So once you learn to relax, trust me, the rest will come quite naturally.

You would think that knowing how to kiss should just come naturally to everyone, but real life would seem to indicate otherwise. While some of us may have been born naturally good kissers the truth is that most people have no clue what makes a good kisser and at some point have to be taught by someone who cares about them enough to tell them the truth. Wouldn't it be better if you didn't have to go through the embarrassment of your boyfriend or girlfriend telling you that you're a bad kisser? I'm going to give you a few quick tips in this article that hopefully will improve you kissing skills rather quickly. They won't make you the best kisser on the planet but at least they can get you started in the right direction. Since whether or not you're a good kisser is somewhat subjective on the part of the person you're kissing, the easiest thing to teach someone is how to be a good kisser as far as your immediate kissing partner is concerned. You can hone your overall kissing skills later. First Kissing Tip - Follow The Leader When showing physical affection to others we almost automatically do to the other person what we want done to us. People who hug, have a desire to be hugged, people with a firm handshake want a firm hand shake back. The same goes for kissing. Your partner is going to kiss you the way they want to be kissed. If you simply lie back a little and follow their lead, you can give back to them what they are giving you. Second Kissing Tip - Notice The Feedback Your partner is going to give you instant feedback on whether or not they like your kiss. You need to be open to picking up on it. If they seem to be trying escape the kiss, then you must assume your kissing is too aggressive. If they seem to be pulling you in closer then you're not giving them enough in the kiss. Adjust quickly to what feedback you're getting. You'll know when you get it right. Third Kissing Tip - Get The Timing Right The person that wants you to kiss them is going to be signaling for it. If you're already in a relationship you need to learn when they like to be kissed and when they don't. Kissing them at the right times is going to earn you all kinds of brownie points and will make your kisses even more special to them. If this is a new relationship, look for body language like leaning towards you, staring into your eyes. Guys, if a girl has her face within a foot of yours and is looking directly in your eyes she wants you to kiss her. Do not hesitate and blow it. Ladies, if a guy is looking in your general direction and doesn't have mouthful of food, he wants you to kiss him. Okay, maybe that's a little too simple, but you get the picture. The key is not missing the opportunity. It might increase their desire to kiss you, but it might put them off. That's too big a risk to take. Hopefully, I've gotten you pointed in the right direction as far as how to be a good kisser. I can't work miracles in such a short article but at least you're a little better off than you were to start. Give these tips a try. For more free tips on how to be a good kisser visit http://www.howtokisser.com

In the movies it always seems that the "rebel" or "outcast" gets the pleasure of kissing the girls, while the nice guy or "good boy" gets the shaft. This is not the case however in real life. In reality, there are steps which can be taken in order to make that special girl in school want to kiss you. Step 1: If you're involved in sports and happen to suffer some minor cuts or bruises, be sure to make certain that the cuts or scrapes are sufficiently healed. Generally speaking, a girl, no matter how much she may like you, has any desire to kiss scabs. Medicated chap stick will work great to speed up the process of erasing those scrapes. Also, if you have any cold sores be sure that they're healed before making your move. If you don't make a good first impression, she may not want to kiss you again. Step 2: If more than an hour has passed since you last brushed your teeth, you're going to either need to give them a good brushing, or pop four to five breath mints before you decide kiss her. Be sure that you are not chewing gum when the time comes to give her that kiss. Breath spray is overrated and is not a good idea, because after you swallow it, the clean flavor of it starts to diminish rapidly. Step 3: Be sure that you've showered and smell good before you go in for that kiss. Also be sure to use a deodorant that is good, but not too strong. You don't want the smell of your deodorant or cologne to overwhelm her. Step 4: Gently take her hand in yours and bring her closer to you. When she's close enough, reach out and lovingly pull her to you. Look into her beautiful eyes and smile. Slowly move your lips down to hers, but if she starts to give you signs of protest or you feel like she wants to move away, let her. She may not feel that she's ready to kiss you yet. If on the other hand she does not protest, gently touch your lips to hers. If she responds, kiss her again more passionately than the first time. If she does not respond just let her go and give her some space, as you may have given her a little bit of a scare. Read her body language in order to tell whether or not she wants to kiss you again. Always maintain your confidence as this is what will encourage her to want to kiss you.

Most men are unsure, how to initiate the first kiss. Find out if the girl is ready to be kissed by you before you go for that first kiss. There are few tests you can use to find out if she is ready to establish a romantic and sexual relationship with you. Use the following as tests to find out is she is ready to be kissed: 1. Run your fingers through the hair of this girl and establish an eye contact. 2. Hold her hands and gently squeeze them. 3. Brush her arm. If she responds positively to two of the three then she is ready to be kissed. Don?t worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn?t brush your arm. She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk away from you. At this point take a step towards her or slowly pull her towards you. Then look into her eyes, slowly lean forward and gently kiss her on the lips. It is always better to give her a quick peck first then go for a longer kiss. There is no need to pull back after you kiss her the first time. You could stay in the kiss position, take a look in her eyes and go for the long kiss. It is possible that the girl may pull back when you go for the kiss even if she complied to all you tests. Don?t assume she does not like you or don?t want you to kiss her because she pulled back. It just means that she did not see the kiss coming. She was a little surprised when you went for the kiss. It very could be bad timing or not relaying her your intentions strong enough before going for the kiss. Go for the kiss right after the above three tests. It will reduce the chances of girl pulling back. If the girl pulls back but does not protest or vocalize her objection to your kiss then it is a good sign. If she does not walk away and continue to participate in the conversation then you can assume she was not ready for the kiss earlier. Test her attraction again buy running the three tests of touching her. If she still does not object to most of the tests than you can definitely go for the kiss again. You will be able to kiss her this time because she will be prepared and expecting it now. Here are few extra tips: - Have a good breadth before you go for the kiss. Use some mint or breath freshener few minutes before the kiss. - Don?t freak the girl out by saying "I love you" right after the kiss. It is too soon to say those words. - Shave if you plan to go for a kiss. - Try to kiss her in private and not in front of 50 people when you kiss her for the first time. - Don?t get upset if she rejects you. Don?t try to convince her or argue with her. - You could make the kiss more romantic by holding her hands or face when you kiss her. You could also hold her on her waist or whisper in a girl?s ears. - It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night. - Don?t get all awkward after you kiss hey. Don?t go all sexual either unless you are absolutely sure that she would be ok with it. You do not want to make things awkward or ruin the moment by coming across as uncomfortable or desperate.

A Kiss is a romantic and speechless way to say Love You. Kiss is the way to say that you can?t speak with your partner. It can express our emotion and feeling. Kiss on the hand - I adore you. Kiss on the neck - I want you. Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends. Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun Kiss on the lips - I love you. Kiss on the nose - Let's get silly. Kiss anywhere else - You're the best. Where would u prefer to kiss your lover, which indicates your nature? Eyes- Sincere Stomach- Innovative Cheeks- Boring Back- Secure Lips- Romantic Hands- Cute Neck- Sexy Legs- Dominating Forehead ? Caring Everywhere- Desperate Kissing should made fun loving game and with different kinds. It would not become boring act of romance. Same kiss same romance, Bring variety of romance in your life with different type of kisses. Aggressive Kiss- When you kiss your partner, just bite down their lower lip and suck the lower lip. Butterfly kiss ? Bring your face closer to partners face and open and close your eyelids like butterfly. Cheek Kiss- This is first date kiss, on the cheeks to say ?I like only you?. Foot Kiss ? Kiss to your partner?s toe, and suck it very gently. Slightly massage the foot, this will generate sensation. Forehead Kiss ? This is kiss to Say that I Care For You. This can say like Mama?s kiss. French kiss ? In this kissing you should be careful, this involves tongue. Pass the breath through the exchange across tongue. Ice Kiss ? Put a ice cube in your mouth and take a kiss of your partner and pass the ice cube in his mouth so on until ice cube melt. Neck Kiss ? Come behind your partner and start kissing on neck, which will generate sensation. Open Eye Kiss ? See love, passion in your partner?s eyes, gently kiss and see in your partner?s eyes. Wave Kiss ? Roll your tongue up, down, like wave while kissing. Wet Kiss- Rub your wet lips up and down on your partners lips. Sweet Kiss ? Put any sweet candy in your mouth. Pass the candy in your partner?s mouth with your tongue. Until that candy melt then take a French kiss. This will tasty sweet kiss.

Are you a guy who goes out night after night and never quite makes contact? You may not realize this, but how to get a girl in bed is a skill and technique, just like anything else. Once you understand how it works, you will see great changes in your night life. Read these 5 awesome tips to make you get a lot better in this game. Appearance Is Everything Guys are rougher than women, and we don?t give a darn about how exactly we look. We believe of that as a girly trait, and we are DEAD wrong. Women love guys who care about the way they look. From how you do your hair, to the clothes you wear and all the way down to your shoes, looking good is crucial. So, before you go out, devote more time to looking at yourself out in the mirror. If you're totally clueless about fashion, that is not an issue. Simply look at some men?s magazines to get a few ideas. Invest a little cash upgrading your wardrobe and wear your best, hippest threads when you're out to the club. Make Her Feel Wonderful When you?re out there playing the field, the most crucial thing is to listen up. It?s not about you, it is about her. All throughout the conversation, make it all about her and make her feel great. Be generous and give her exactly what she wants. Consistently compliment her, because self-esteem is among the biggest things that keeps a woman from going to bed with a man. If you are making her feel great just chatting at the club or hanging out somewhere, this shows her that you?ll make her feel great in the sack too. Be Playful Serious guys aren?t the ones that get girls into bed. You?ve got to have a sense of humor and playfulness. It?s an essential part of flirting. Throw some jokes and make her relaxed and comfortable being around you. You'll see the importance of this when the key moment comes - the club has closed and both of you are standing outside ready to decide the next destination. Make her understand that the fun is just begin! Be A Good Kisser It's a statistic fact and has been shown in a lot of surveys in women's magazines: they love a man who are proficient at kissing. The first kiss is the prelude to all the things that?s going to take place soon after. If you are skillful with the tonsil hockey, her imagination will tell her what else you are competent with. Don?t be nervous; enjoy the kiss as much as you?ll enjoy what comes later, and you?ll make it enjoyable for her too. The hardest part of the first kiss is making contact. Hold off until the timing is right and study her body language to see if she?s ready, and then move in for the kill. If you know how to kiss her really well and you get that first kiss, the rest will fall right into your lap. Stick to Target Here is something really important to keep in mind in your seduction quest - women love and need sex just as much as men do. Society teaches women that it?s "wrong" to enjoy sex, and teaches us men that it?s okay. It isn't fair, but that?s just the way it is. Keeping this in your mind, you ought to have confidence in the fact that she wants it just as bad as you do. It?s just a matter of playing your cards right and watching your timing. When you get proficient in applying these strategies, you already know how to get a girl in bed and you can do it without much difficulties. Remember these five guidelines when you're in the game and you'll begin to see result you desire.

The art of dating/mating and being a great lover involves behaving in ways she is almost certainly not accustomed to and likely constricted by her past experiences with men. The reason women are unfamiliar with these successful strategies is that most men do not know or practice them. 10 arousal tips are provided to help you learn and practice what women seek and cherish. With years of experience as a psychologist working with couples and women, I have posted their secrets that will arouse the vast majority of them if followed. 1) Dress well, keep clean and stay fit. A woman will always notice what you wear around the house and in bed. Do not think a T-shirt and boxers will get her aroused. Dressing well in your day-to-day life sends her the message you care about the way you look. Maintaining proper hygiene is paramount. Not only should you regularly bathe and brush your teeth, but be sure to be clean with fresh breath when you hope or plan to have a night of sexual fun. 2) Women?s sex talk can be very different to what many men like. Although there are some women who like direct sex talk such as "I want to be inside you now", most women like indirect sex talk such as "I think you?re beautiful" or "I want to make love to you." Women tend to prefer subtle ways of letting her know you want to be sexual with her. 3) Don?t forget the rest of her body. To help a woman become aroused, always first touch, caress, kiss, and/or lick parts of her body other than her "sex parts." Ask your woman what parts of her body she finds sensitive and start there. The longer you go without touching her sexual areas will always work to your advantage. 4) The kiss is the first step to getting a woman aroused when foreplay is about to begin. Start to kiss her slowly and begin your kissing first on parts of her body like her neck, forehead, and cheeks. Do not start deeply French kissing unless you are darn sure she is ready for deep kissing. Light kissing along with deep eye gazing is always a good first step. 5) A way to a woman?s heart is through her stomach. Although usually said about men, being a good cook and preparing her meals she will enjoy can often times get her aroused for later in the evening. Serve her a terrific meal. Whether it is breakfast in bed or a late night snack, she will always be impressed with presenting her food. 6) Indirect sexual contact can arouse a woman more than you would believe. Many men immediately go to a women?s clitoris or move to penetration. Indirect clitoral contact around her pubic bone, inner thighs, and outer vaginal lips will always get her aroused for deeper sexual foreplay. 7) Self confidence arouses women. Bragging, cockiness, and arrogance never turn a woman on. Instead, self-confidence is illustrated by understanding and verbalizing she is more than a sexual object. Regularly communicating this fact will lead her to believe you are self-confident. If you do this on a regular basis, you yourself will become more confident about initiating physical contact. 8) Inject humor in your sexual foreplay. Women love a man who can be funny and comedic before and during foreplay. This is not to say you should conduct a stand up comedy routine, but feeling comfortable to be jovial sends her the message you enjoy her company. 9) Set an atmosphere. Women truly enjoy sights, sounds, and smells. Simply dimming the lights, putting on romantic music, and/or lighting aromatic candles can sexually stimulate her senses. Just as men have tool belts to fix things around his home, so too should he have his tool kit always close by when there is the potential for intimacy. 10) Listen, Listen, Listen. What is most erotic to a woman is how well a man listens to her. Since women are social creatures, showing her you are a good listener will always arouse her senses and send her the message you want more than just her body. There is a huge difference between listening and hearing when a woman speaks. Effective listening occurs when a man can quickly mirror her statements via the simple technique of repeating what she has said These 10 tips will work for a vast majority of women. The tips I have posted for you come from my years working as a psychologist counseling couples and women. Almost 90% of the women I have counseled have verbalized to me their wish men would treat them in a manner as suggested above. The more of the tips you can practice, the better chances you will have at women viewing you as a great person and lover.

Today we are going to learn the simple yet highly effective ways of having highly enhanced and long lasting sex. 1. Exercise Turning On and Off This tip is for men. I want you to exercise a skill which is useful for exponentially increasing your success in sexual performance. Females get turned on when they can not predict what your next move is going to be? Kiss their lips a bit then sit back. Allow them to ask for more. Caress them and suddenly move to kiss their neck a thousand times. Then again watch them straight in their eyes.It gives them a feeling of a natural progression from initial kiss to foreplay and finally the climax. 2. Eye Contact Most of the men are guilty of not having enough eye contact with the woman they are making love to. Women love to have their male counterparts coming closer and looking straight into their eyes while nibbling their breasts or kissing their lips very delicately. Remember. The key here is to experience the most fantastic gift that God has given to mankind. What better way than to see it all. And above all eyes speak a lot than words do. 3. Every time use a new prop To kill monotonous sexual practice you need to have a different prop every time. It could be: 1.) Scented oil for massaging. 2.) Chocolate. 3.) Vibrator. 4.) Scarf. And the list goes on...Use the entire place available in the room. One cool place could be the floor. Spice up your sex life with a different and pleasing prop. 4. Talk to her slowly in her ears The most sensuous organ according to me is the ear. Women love when men kiss and move their finger tips on their ear lobes. Notice the goose bumps that they get and mention that slowly in their ears. Tell them slowly what you are going to do next. This creates anticipation. For example: If you are going to kiss their tits. Mention it to them and then slowly do it. They would enjoy it. 5. Use Finger tips Men should use their finger tips for moving all along your partner's divine body. Caress them .Slowly move your fingers from the shoulder to the back of their neck and on their back side while kissing them. Curl your fingers around their breasts and just move the finger tips on their lips to feel them.Women would hold you tight once they get aroused by these movements. These are initial ways of arousal.

The movies make it look so easy, don?t they? The truth is, you have to build some solid basis first. If you don?t know how to get a girl to kiss you, it can be a little tough to get everything set just right. Here are a few steps that you should do to make her comfortable with your lips on hers: 1. Initiate Contact Before you place a big juicy one in the middle of her face, you have to initiate contact. If you work your way up to it, it will be simple and natural (which is just what it ought to be). The best way to make it natural is to start touching her long before you go in for the kill. Subtlely touch her arm or brush up against her when you?re walking. If you?re sitting next to her, let your leg rest against hers. The more physical contact there is before the first kiss, the simpler it will be. Touching her gets your foot in the front door and establishes contact. Try to be easy with it - no groping or she?ll be gone faster than you can say "creep." 2. Lean In For It When you?re ready, lean in for the kiss. When you get closer to her, you?ll know 100% whether the time is right by her body language and how she reacts. If you lean in and she begins to lean ahead ready for it, you are ready to go. If she doesn?t react, you might have to wait a little longer. If she shrinks away in horror, you forgot to apply deodorant today! Simply look into her body language; if she look?s ready, you have it. 3. Do not Stop There! Once you move in and the kiss will almost certainly happen, don?t lose confidence. A lot of men do that. They are on the approach and all of a sudden something stops them. It might be lack of confidence or doubt about where to go next. When you start leaning in and her lips are pursed and ready, go for it and don?t let anything stop you. If it feels right, keep it going and allow it to lead you anywhere it wants to. Check Your Hygiene We have covered the way to get the first kiss, but there is an important factor to think about. More often than not, guys do not pay ample attention to hygiene, and it is a definite kiss killer. Some girls like rough messy guys but most don?t. The truth is, girls overwhelmingly like guys who pay close attention to their looks and smells. Ensure that your lips are not dry and chapped, and keep your breath smelling good. In addition to your mouth?s hygiene, ensure that you and your clothes smell great. After all, you?re going to be getting very close to each other. Securing the first kiss always need a tremendous amount of confidence. You?ve got to strike while the iron?s hot, and the key to doing this is to read her body language. Make sure you see that she's ready and she wants the kiss as much as you do. A kiss that?s timed badly can ruin your chances of getting another one. Keep in mind these 3: confidence, continuous physical contact, and realize when the time is right. That way, you'll have the kiss, and a lot more after that.

How to get a girl to kiss you right after the first date may be hard but it is definitely possible. Getting a girl to kiss you has a greater impact on future events than if you were the one who initiated it. She will feel a lot more attracted to you if she has planned and thought about that kiss and how SHE can make it happen than if you were the one doing the planning. Little by little, tug her along into getting into this specific mood and give her a simple opportunity to kiss you as well. Listed below are 5 things you should take to heart about how to get a girl to kiss you. 1. Attain a good reputation as an adept kisser. Practice whenever you can and you'll be adept at kissing. Get a hold of all the experience you had in the past and use them. Make it a point to know where your kissing skills lie at the moment. Find out how people you've kissed rate your skill. Learn from your friends as well. You will learn a lot about kissing from their experiences. If you attain mastery of kissing, girls will instantly be drawn to you. Not only that, gossip is normal for most girls and they exchange information rather eagerly, especially about good kissers. If rumors spread about your insufficient kissing ability, the girl you always wanted to go out with will most likely avoid you. However, if you gain reputation among girls of being a really good kisser, they will definitely chase you for it. 2. Maintain the good state of your oral hygiene. Nothing is more shameful than kissing a girl and sharing your lunch-breath with her. When that happens, you can be sure that it will be the first and last time she'll kiss you. She will immediately notice if you have bad breath even before kissing you. This will end up to her making sure that you are far from her sights. When you're on a date with her, observing great oral and dental hygiene will be an advantage. Chewing gum and having breath mints at the ready can assist in freshening your breath as well. 3. Show that you are into her. Make her feel that you are definitely interested in her. Make sure you don't come across as just a friend. Men who go out with women with intentions of befriending her first will be treated only as that and nothing more. Instead, be physical with her. Touch her often but observe that you do it gently and naturally. At times, gaze directly into her eyes and dwell. This will draw you to each other. Although she feels like kissing you already, she wont. She needs to be sure that you are interested in her first. Using these strategies will allow you to show her the signals she is waiting for to consider kissing you. 4. Set up an environment where you can appear as an irresistible kissing subject. You can set up a kiss by taking her out for a date in a romantic environment. This way, numerous opportunities for physical intimacy can arise. You have to create an environment where she is having fun and feels relaxed with your presence. More importantly, there will be many moments you can take to seduce her and be close to her in the most natural way. 5. Boost the intimacy at the right moment. If you are fortunate enough to be alone with her, gently tease her in some of her stimulating areas. These areas are widely known as female hotspots and are composed of her lips, wrist, neck and waist. This will arouse her all the more and make her want to jump at you and taste your lips. One can definitely learn how to get a girl to kiss you. It's not something that happens through fate. Everything is a result of how you behave around the girl, and how she feels about you. If you both feel the same powerful attraction to each other, there is no way she would be able to hold herself back from kissing you.

Women want men to kiss them more and they want them to learn how to French kiss step by step. The lips are one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and there is great power in being able to kiss well. The French kiss is the most romantic of kisses and it is an excellent method of starting foreplay as well as a way for you to show your desire, feelings and emotions. This article is intended to teach you how to French kiss step by step so that you can turn on your partner with your mouth and have her feel excited to go on the rest of the sexual experience. It is an erotic way of kissing. Let's learn how to french kiss step by step. Remember that there is no wrong way to kiss. French kissing involves using both your lips and your tongue to experience a really close and romantic feeling between two people. You may need to practice kissing until you get it right and don't forget that each person kisses differently and likes different things. Try French kissing step by step in order for you and your partner to get the hang of it. Allow Yourself to Relax Relax your lips and also your body. If you fail to do this, your partner will feel like he or she is kissing a dead fish. Keep Your Lips Open Open your lips to just the point where it's like your breathing through your mouth and don't open it much further than that. Position Yourself You don't have to face each other dead on when you are learning how to french kiss step by step. Move your head to the side so your noses just touch but don't run into one another. This allows your mouths to meet at the corners without involving your noses in the process. Tongue In learning how to french kiss step by step, make sure you open your mouth and stick out your tongue by an inch or two. Place your tongue inside your love partner's mouth and make room for theirs to go you're your mouth. Circle your tongue around theirs and follow their lead as long as the sensation feels okay with you. These are the most common techniques for French kissing: 1. Explore the inside of the mouth using your tongue 2. Flick your tongue toward your partner's. 3. Touch the tips of the tongues while simultaneously exploring the mouth. This is the Most Vital Tip When it Comes to Learning How to French Kiss Step by Step: Don't leave your tongue doing nothing-always have it constantly moving and use it to show your passion for your partner. Find out what he or she likes and follow that at all time. French kissing is all about exploring each other so make the most of it and don't forget to change things up a bit. Moving Your Head Everyone is different and there are those that will move their head around in a circular motion and others that won't move the head at all. There is personal preference to all of this so expect just about anything. The French kiss and is an excellent beginning to foreplay-showing affection and love for one another in the act of preparing for sex.

Kissing is a very romantic gesture of affection which is more intimate than any other sexual act. You do not have to be in Paris France to learn how to french kiss. Even while in Paris Texas you can still learn the mouth-mouth art of french kissing. Add to your lips a french flavor and kiss like a real soul mate. To kiss passionately you need to know the secret behind good timing. If you know when to go full-throated for the kill you will really get the kill but if you do the wrong timing, you will certainly miss it. To time correctly, pay close attention to your lover's pace of breathing. If he is breathless and panting like an animal go straight for him. This calls for the lusty french kiss. If your lover's breathing is calm, relaxed and predictable, you have got some coaxing to do. Coy french kiss is most appropriate. The first thing to understand while learning how to french kiss is, every woman has her own different style of kissing. It all depends with the unique combination of your mouth's anatomy. How wide you can stretch your jaws open, the length and width of your tongue and the height of sexual aggression and individual tastes. The mechanism applied is similar with any other type of kissing. All you have to do is tilt the head to one side, make your lips part, slowly ease your tongue into your lover's parting lips. The technique involved in a french kiss are divided into two. The two techniques are employed depending on how ready your lover is. If the panting suggests that he can't wait to feel your lips, go for the lusty french kiss. This kind of french kiss doesn't need any warm up. You are badly wanted by your lover and you want him as evidenced by your heavy breathing. Swiftly roll your tongue in circle's around your lover's mouth. This should be lusty thrusting. First do it shallowly then go deep. There should be coordination between the two mouths. Tilt your head to the other side and enjoy a repeat of the same. While at it you can as well bite his lower lip playfully. Lick his lower lip add a real french sensation. If you feel that your lover needs some coaxing, go for the coy french kiss. The mellow breathing suggests a little warm up. Let the tip of your tongue lick his upper lip. Follow this by kissing him softly with no tongue involved. Teasingly taste his bottom lip them playfully brush your lips back and forth, up and down. Look at him seductively straight into his eyes. Eyes say a lot about what we feel and what we want. A sexy gaze can instantly arouse you to heightened levels. Add bits of moaning and a little panting to compliment your efforts. Easily slip your tongue between his parting lips. Continued coaxing will eventually lead to the lusty french kiss. Enjoy your french kiss while you are miles away from France.

How do you kiss a girl which has expected you to take action? Just press your lips against hers; should you past that point already, you can try using your tongue, suck her tongue, etc. How do you know if a girl is ready to be kissed? How to make a situation that make her feels relaxed enough to let you do it? Well, that will require a few specific techniques. Needless to say, you can kiss a girl after you build rapport and attraction. After that, note for these indicators to measure your progress in the relationship: 1. She appears to love her time with you; she laughs, keeps eye-to-eye contact, and you both have great conversation. 2. How do you kiss a girl if she does not feel comfortable with physical contact? If she permits you to sit or stand very close to her and she does not mind touching you and being touched by you, you already make excellent progress. 3. When you talk with her, she just can't continuously look at your eyes; rather, she keeps stealing glimpses at your lips. Often, this sign can be translated that a simple kiss isn't the only thing that she wants. These signs can?t ensure your success, but that?s enough; it is time to carry out some ?actions?. I mean, how do you kiss a girl if you won?t take action? Here are a few points that you should think about: 1. Do not make a move in a room packed with many people. A Girl thinks first kiss as something wonderful that should be shared solely between both of you. So make sure you both in a personal place when you?re going in for the kill. 2. Reach your palm to her hair while you talking, then gently touch and stroke it. If she does not mind and appears to enjoy it, incline to her and smell her neck while whispering a compliment. When you pull back, peek her eyes and lips; you will see if she is prepared to be kissed. 3. Occasionally, girls got this ?unexpected panic? whenever you try to kiss them (even though they want it too) and turn her face when you?re closing in for the kiss. How do you kiss a girl when she does that? What you should do is NEVER back away; instead, kiss her cheek, and then move to her neck. If you do this, she's going to turn around and kiss you back. 4. While you kiss her, use your hand and caress through her hair, keep going down to her neck and her back, quit at her waist, then gently slide your hand up and do it all over again. Some other good ideas are holding her face firmly, pull her hair back from the back roots, or squeeze her ribs a little. You might not want to go too far in the first kiss, but when you kiss her, you will know if she wishes more (she might start using her tongue or bite your lips). If this take place, grab her waist or head and pull her closer to you; from there use your tongue, suck her lips (one at a time), move your lips to her neck and ear, and so on. So, how do you kiss a girl? As the man of the relationship, you need to recognize the signs, place the two of you in a supportive situation for a kiss, and take the lead. When you have all of that and you have built enough attraction and rapport for her to desire your lips on hers, you will get the kiss.

How to kiss a girl? Let's put aside advice from glossy columns in women's magazines that promise to make you an expert kisser overnight. Rather, this post focuses and elaborates on basic kissing tips for guys – From pre-kiss prep to technique to the things that every man should remember before leaning in to lock lips with his woman. Make your kiss enjoyable, romantic, cute, beautiful and heavenly.1) Never carry a bad breath

Brush your teeth twice, gargle with a mouth wash, use mints or a strong gum – Do whatever it takes to have fresh breath when you kiss a girl. Bad breath is a total turn off and kissing can go from a beautiful fairy tale experience to a one that she would rather not remember.

2) Wash your hair

Wash your hair or at least make sure that your hair feels nice to run fingers through and is free of dandruff or other stuff that can make her go eew. This kissing tip comes as a reminder to guys that your girl may like to run her fingers through your hair while you lock lips with her.

Her kissing experience will be heightened if she enjoys ruffling your hair and putting her hands through them.

3) Remove/trim your nasal hair and clear your nose

You are likely to annoy your girlfriend if she sees a bunch of your nasal hair greeting her as you lean in for a kiss. Use scissors, buy a nose hair trimmer, use tweezers - Do whatever it takes to leave the inside and outer edges of your nose hair free.

Kissing also involves tilting of the head in many directions, leaving your nose area in full view of your girlfriend. Be sure to keep your nose clean and free of mucus or something that may embarrass you.4) Smell nice: Use a manly fragrance

Fragrance and smell will play a big role in charming your girl and giving her a kiss of a lifetime. Putting on a manly perfume, cologne or EDT will make her want to smell you over and over again.

If perfume is not your domain or if you are unsure about your whacky choice in fragrances, stick to safe bets like Cool Water by Davidoff, Eternity by CK, Kenneth Cole Black by Kenneth Cole or Hugo by Hugo Boss.

5) Use a lip balm or moisturizer if your lips have become cracked

Your cracked lips can hurt or irritate your girlfriend's lips. As a guy, don't go overboard with carrying a lip balm and worrying about it obsessively, but remember to give your lips a quick check before you kiss.

If you think that your lips have been sucked dry of their moisture because of the weather, use a lip balm or a jelly to bring them back to their tender self. Avoid using fragrant lip balms because a girl generally does not expect her guy's lips to smell like strawberry, vanilla or peach.

6) Don't ask 'May I kiss you?'

Asking your girl, whether you can kiss her or not may blow away the romantic moment. Weather it is the first time you are kissing a girl or a woman who you have been going out with since a long time, take charge and use your judgment to know if it is the right time to have a kissing make-out session.

Is she leaning towards you? Is she facing away from you? Is she smiling or is she grumpy? Think about things like these and make your move. Don't wait for her to grant you permission to kiss.7) Never approach a kiss with a closed mouth

If you are in the habit of keeping your lips shut while approaching your girlfriend to kiss her, you could be putting her off. A closed mouth could be seen as an indication that all you are looking to do is give her a tiny peck with your lips.

Before you learn how to kiss, remember to open your mouth as your lean into her face. Don't open too wide. If you can't figure out how much gap to leave between your lips, just open up as if you were about to say something.

8) Tilt your head and guide hers the opposite way

Tilt your head sideways and if possible, guide her head to tilt it in to the opposite side with your hands. If you don't, you risk bumping noses and if that happens, immediately giggle it off and tilt your head again so you can kiss her immediately while the situation is still romantic and heated up.

9) Keep your eyes shut while kissing

This is possibly one of the most commonly given, and abused kissing tip of all time. No matter how long or how short your kiss is going to be, remind yourself to close your eyes when you pucker up. It is a sign of enjoyment and by closing your eyes, your body language speaks that you are in a trance as you lock your lips with your beautiful girl.

As you lean in to kiss a girl, give her a droopy, intoxicated look as a sign that your eyelids will be shut the very moment you lock lips with her.10) Don't hold your hands to yourself

You don't kiss with your hands, but they play a very big role in making your kissing experience more enjoyable. As you kiss a girl, constantly use your hands to hold her neck from the side, support her head as she tilts it, put them on her waist, gently supporting her back as she enjoys the kiss or even caressing her shoulders as you enjoy the tender moment.

Use your hands to guide your girl into tilting the way you want and more importantly, use them to caress her back and shoulder. Don't grope or fondle the womanly parts of her body, leave that for a rendezvous in the bedroom.

11) Don't use your tongue immediately

Unless you are trying to imitate an overtly friendly pooch, remember the ever important kissing tip of never to use your tongue immediately. As you lock lips, allow yourself and your girlfriend to get in an angle where you can both feel your lips wrapped around each others'.

12) Slide your tongue in, never force it

Once into the kiss, gently slide your tongue out for a moment and pull it back in. Do it again and with each time, lick bits of her lips and finally the inside of her mouth. Soon enough, you are likely to find yourself having a tongue duel with your girlfriend.

If the girl brings her tongue out first, welcome it with your warm lips and allow her to take control for a bit.13) Don't salivate excessively while kissing her

Excessive saliva can make a kiss very sloppy and irritating. Don't become conscious of this while kissing but if you think that your lip locking gets too sloppy, hold back and avoid smothering her with your saliva.

14) End your kiss with a dreamy smile

As you pull away from your kiss, carry a naughty smile on your face and a dreamy look in your eyes. This will let your girl know that the lip lock has left you on cloud nine.

She may too reciprocate your smile with a naughty giggle. Give her a compliment and if you feel like, lean in for yet another kiss and make your romantic moment double the fun.

15) Never hurry: Be cool, smooth and slow

Think of every kiss as savoring the most expensive glass of wine in the world. Would you gulp it down as a shot or would you start by inhaling the aromas, swirling the glass around and enjoying sip by sip until the very last drop?

Assuming that you picked the latter, enjoy every moment of your kiss and immerse yourself into a romantic wave. Never kiss in a haste and go slow. Heighten your kissing experience by feeling every step of your kiss.

What's more romantic than love quotes? And how better to celebrate Sneak a Kiss Day (June 15th) than with a few love quotes shared between you and your significant other? Okay, so maybe Sneak a Kiss Day was created for the purpose of selling greeting cards. That doesn't mean you and your sweetheart can't share some love quotes with one another to make the day special! 1. "I have been astonished that men could die martyrs for their religion - I have shudder'd at it. I shudder no more. I could be martyr'd for my religion. Love is my religion and I could die for that. I could die for you. ~ John Keats 2. "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return." ~ Natalie Cole 3. "True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen." ~ La Rochefoucauld 4. "Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." ~ St. Augustine 5. "There is no remedy for love but to love more." ~ Thoreau 6. "Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." ~ Mark Twain 7. "A kiss is a lovely trick, designed by nature, to stop words when speech becomes superfluous." ~ Ingrid Bergman 8. "A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy." ~ George Jean Nathan 9. "And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye." ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery 10. "Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths, enwrought with golden and silver light, the blue and the dim and the dark cloths of night and light and the half-light, I would spread the cloths under your feet." ~ William Butler Yeats 11. "I believe that love cannot be bought except with love." ~ John Steinbeck 12. "If music be the food of love, play on..." ~ Shakespeare 13. "Where there is love, there is life" ~ Mahatma Gandhi 14. "To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." ~ Karen Sunde If you love someone, use Sneak a Kiss Day as an excuse to show your love. Never hesitate to express your love in words. Those who think love quotes are silly or corny have never truly been in love.

Many men fail to read the signs when a woman want to be kissed. If you do it when it is not expected, you are risking a hard slap on the face. As a guy you should be able to interpret body language signs and love her just right on time. A timely kiss is the ultimate seduction technique. If you are a master in reading the body language, you must have noticed that women who are sexually ready show varied body signals. The initial body gestures are a bit gentle. If she is the flirting, pushy type of a girl, the signs become apparently obvious that even a blind and deaf man can feel it. It is not hard to look for body language signs and get the right interpretation. Truthfully speaking the more one is sexually aroused the more the mouth, lips and tongue movement. What do you do when you desire anything, food or no food? You subconsciously lick your lips! Yes it is an indication that you desire something. When a girl starts licking her lips your kiss will be most welcome. Among the body language signs to look out for in a flirting woman is when she starts playing with things like straws, cigarettes or suggestively caressing the fingers. The more aroused she is, the more aware of her lips she becomes. She constantly plays with her mouth since she becomes increasingly sensitive. They might be subconscious seduction techniques so do not condemn her over taking advantage of you. The seduction techniques a girl applies are so obvious that they should not pass unnoticed. Licking her fingers and caressing the spoons and forks as she eats. Time when it is right to kiss a girl and you will wonder why men whine about wooing women. Strong sexual body language signs are an indicator that a girl wants you as much as you may want her. Improve your seduction techniques by looking out for these important gestures. If you see one of the signs, do not hurry to plant a deep kiss on her. I swear you will never be forgiven. Take your time and watch out for all other details to confirm your suspicion and clear all the doubts. The more you make her wait for the moment, the more welcome a sexy and hot kiss will be. You will agree with me that people who have erotic thoughts tend to drink, eat or smoke at a very high rate. If you realize this, you are in agreement with me and that shows that you have the ability of reading body language signs. If you do not respond to all the other signals, please do not fail to interpret this one, because then i do not know why you are with a girl in the first place. Does she tilt her head towards yours? This is the best invitation you can have. Raise to the occasion and gently brush your lips across hers. This is to ensure that you leave her wanting more of it. If you do a mistake of overwhelming her during the first kiss, she may change her mind. Just incase she tightens her lips or try to pull away, you should stop. The seduction technique is all in timing.

Introduction to Kissing

So you are either here because you have yet to experience your first kiss, you have been told you need to brush up on your skills, or you're bored.

For whatever reason. You are here to learn how to kiss.

What is a Kiss?

A kiss is actually a very simple term. It is the act of touching two people's lips together. A kiss can also be described as touching one persons lips to an object such as a doll, a pet such as your dog, or a body part such as someones cheek. However, a kiss can mean a lot of things, love, passion, a greeting, friendship, affection, respect, or sexual desire.

Obviously a kiss between two lovers is going to have a completely different meaning than a kiss between family members.Types of Kisses

Before you learn how to kiss you should learn about a few of the different types of kisses.

Types

A kiss on the cheek- is exactly that. A closed lip kiss against someones cheek. Usually shared between friends or family members. As this is more of a friendly type of kiss. Meaning I care about you.

Eskimo kiss- embrace each other and rub noses together. Usually shared between lovers. Or friends and family being a little silly.

Butterfly kiss- very closely, face to face. Open and close your eyes so that your eyelashes rub against your lovers. Usually shared between partners.

Earlobe kiss- place your hand on the back of your partners head and gently suck and nibble on their earlobe. Usually shared between lovers and often used to turn each other on.

Suck kiss- gently take your partners lower lip in between your lips and gently suck. A passionate kiss usually shared between lovers.

Closed mouth kiss- both participants lips are closed and then pressed together. This is often shared between lovers, family or friends to let each other know they care.

Neck kiss- a combination of both kissing and sucking up and down your partners neck. This is a passionate kiss often used to turn someone on.

The nibble kiss- much the same as the suck kiss. Take your partners lower lip between your two lips and gently nibble. This is often shared between lovers as it is quite passionate.

Air kissing- press your check up against another persons cheek while making a kiss noise with your lips. And then repeat on the other side. This is often used as a sophisticated gesture or greeting.

The french kiss- press your lips to your partners. As you are unlocking and re-locking your lips open your lips slightly and gently insert your tongue into their mouth. This is an extremely passionate kiss.

The Kiss

Now that you have learned about the types of kisses. You can now learn how to kiss. For this tutorial we will use a passionate french kiss.

Step 1

Make sure your lips are ready. Use a lip balm prior to ensure that your lips are soft and moist. You also don't want your lips to have any disgusting sores. Make sure your breath is fresh. Brush your teeth and use a mint.

Step 2

Choose a partner. Make sure that your partner is as willing to kiss you as you are willing to kiss them. If you don't have anyone in mind. You are likely going to have to wait until you do. As it's kind of hard to learn how to kiss without a partner.

Step 3

Wait until the right moment. This is a very important step in learning how to kiss. If the moment isn't right your partner may reject your kiss. The moment may be after a date, while your are laying in bed, or cuddling on the couch watching a movie. Where ever the moment is, you'll know when it's right.

Step 4

Invade your partners personal space. You are going to have to get up close and personal. If your partner moves away or pushes you away. Stop. As continuing may prevent you from having any future kisses with this person.

Step 5

Embrace your partner and tilt your head as a straight on kiss will result in a nose collision.

Step 6

Lock lips with your partner. Continue to lock and unlock lips.

Step 7

Slowly open your mouth and touch your tongue to their lips. If they don't open their mouth. You may have to wait until another time to experience your french kiss. If they open their mouth you are good to go.

Step 8

Slide your tongue into their mouth. They will likely slide their tongue into your mouth at the same time.

So now that your tongues are touching and you are continuing to lock and unlock your lips. You have now learned how to kiss. Not only just kiss but a french kiss at that!

What do most of the romantic movies have in common? Yes, a long, passionate kiss that is shared between two star-crossed lovers. You know the type I mean - a romantic lip lock like the one shared by Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh in the 1939 classic, Gone With the Wind. Or how about that sexy upside down kiss between the famous superhero Spiderman and his love Mary Jane? Learning how to kiss a girl may seem easy in the movies, but it can be quite different when you try it for yourself. However, there are some foolproof tips you can follow to guarantee a kiss. If you want to learn how to kiss a girl, the first thing you need to do is be bold. Women like men who are in charge and who surprise them. Don't bother with playing the shy gentleman. If you find an attractive girl, initiate a conversation with her and then go for the gusto. She might be caught off guard, but that won't necessarily mean she didn't enjoy the surprise element of the whole situation. If you want to master the art of learning how to kiss a girl, you also need to make sure to retain an air of mystery. Women love mystery and the whole concept of intrigue. You should play up on this fact by teasing her bit. Start by directly asking her for a kiss. Be fully prepared for a flat out no response. At this point, most men would cut their losses. However, a smart man will smile mischievously and say "I'm just making sure you really meant what you said. You looked like you may have meant to say yes so I thought I would check." You should also build some anticipation when you want to know how to kiss a girl. Start off snuggling on the couch and gently brushing her ear. Things will quickly start to heat up again, at which point you should pull away. Try leaning in and then resisting a few more times. Very soon, she will practically be begging you for a kiss. She will soon decide that she just HAS to have a kiss from you after being teased for a while. Now, I shouldn't have to tell you this, but you need to start slowly without forcing your tongue down her throat. There is a time and place for everything, but we are discussing how to kiss a girl, not an illicit a gag response. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with a good French kiss, but only when it is expected. She will find it very disconcerting when you quickly progress from soft, gentle kisses to a full-on "Frencher". You may want to surprise your woman, but not like this. If you want to know how to kiss a girl properly, just remember the simple rules. Be bold, retain an air of mystery and build up anticipation. Last but not least, remember to start with slow, sensual kisses before revealing any tongue. Have fun and most importantly, be sure to practice often.

Initiating time period kiss can come over the first date, second and also third and must observe a mango. Make an initial kiss memory special, and prevent a bad time to begin the process dating advice a coach women out in such a free video on dating tricks of boys. A friend has decided that you require help with your social life so it is set with an impaired date.... A friend to a friend of a buddy. That, foolishly, accept. Now you are. Is less than an hour since they were launched. You are sitting inside of a Thai restaurant and everyone hate Thai food. The dish is absolutely not served. His idea of illuminated conversation is who is the last four... you will not be in sports. He knows the weekly TV application literally.... You do not sit through the movie in months if you run marathons and offer at local food financial institutions. He says, "Volunteering is a waste products of time because you cannot help 'those people' anyways. " You look for your watch, see that should be only 10 minutes from a final time I looked one more time and I wonder how long before you retire and the situation. Have? Now imagine a day with someone you met through internet dating and get been chatting online by using e-mail messages and exchange with him for quite a while. First, there is a lot be introduced. Do you're certain that person. You're sitting with an Italian restaurant enjoying an enjoyable meal because you both know that the other favorite is Italian. The conversation flows easily whenever you discuss common interests. He runs marathons and loves history as it does. You happily discuss this volunteer work that you both is involved in. You take a look at your watch and find it's late... too late... where I have enough time to lose. There is mostly a difference between a well-intentioned friend "setting up" and the election of a man himself who share ones interests and preferences, best suited? Now you rather possess?

It?s a fact women particularly love to be kissed and the lips are one of the most important erogenous zones for both men and women and the power of a good kiss is neatly summed in the following quote. ?You may conquer with the sword, but you are conquered by a kiss? -Daniel Heinsius The French kiss is romantic and a great start to foreplay as well. It is a fantastic way for you to express your feelings, emotions and desire. This article will focus on basic French kissing techniques that are guaranteed to fill both you and your partner with passion and desire. The French is erotic and fun so let?s look at French kissing techniques in more detail What actually is a French kiss? Quite simply, French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues and kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is no right or wrong way to kiss. The point to keep in mind is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Try kissing your partner a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing. While there is no right or wrong way to kiss, here are a few tips to help you create the perfect French kiss. Relax Yourself You lips should be relaxed, you body should also be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for your partner! Open Lips Open your lips (not to wide) but just like you do when regularly breathing through your mouth. Positioning Do not have your faces directly opposite each other or your noses will clash. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of your partners. Your mouths will then meet at the corner of your partner?s mouth and you won?t clash noses! Tongue Open your mouth and put your tongue out around an inch or two. Your tongue will then go into your partner?s mouth and theirs will of course go into yours. Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (and all people like to kiss differently) then just do the same as they do, if you are enjoying the sensation. Common French kissing techniques are: 1.Flicking of the tongue over your partners 2.Exploring the inside of the mouth with the tongue. 3.Lightly touching of tongues while exploring the mouth. The most important tip! Never leave your tongue still or doing nothing, make sure you are constantly using it and showing feelings and passions and finding out what your partner really likes and try and add variety to all your kisses. Head movement Again all people are different. Some people will move their heads slightly in a circular motion or figure eight and some times people don?t move their heads at all, this is all down to personal preference. The French kiss is a wonderful experience and most people love kissing affection love and desire are all contained within a kiss as Robert Browning once said: ?The moment eternal - just that and no more - When ecstasy's utmost we clutch at the core While cheeks burn, arms open, eyes shut, and lips meet!?

Kissing, a Natural Drug

The art of kissing can be traced back to the 6th century. But, who knows for sure, it might have existed years or centuries before. A kiss was first an expression of homage. Homage was a sign of respect, or reverence paid, or rendered.

In some African tribes, the natives would kiss the ground where a chief had walked. The Romans would kiss the mouth or eyes as a form of dignified salutation. Roman emperors allowed very important nobles to kiss his lips. Those of lower importance could kiss his hands, and the lowest on the Nobel ladder could kiss his feet.

The first country that recognized the kiss as a sign of courtship and love was France. This custom started spreading throughout Europe. Russia liked to copy France in anything they did. A kiss from the Tsar was considered the highest form of recognition from the crown.

A quote from wired.com, "Kissing works like a drug in our bodies, and can promote dopamine -- the same neurotransmitter stimulated from addictive drugs like cocaine."What are Your Favorite Kisses?

A kiss is a sign of affection. Here is my list of my ten favorite kisses. They are in no particular order.

1. Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhall in Brokeback Mountain

2. Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost

3. Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh in Gone With the Wind

4. Lady and the Tramp

5. Madonna and Britney Spears

6. Sleeping Beauty

7. V-J Day kiss on cover of Life Magazine

8. Burt Lancaster and Deborah Kerr in From Here to Eternity

9. Tobey McGuire and Kristen Dunst in Spider-Man

10. Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams in The NotebookExcuses to Celebrate

Using an X to symbolize a kiss started back in early Christian era. An X stood for a sworn oath. Many people could not write their name so an X became a legal mark. The mark emphasized the persons’ sincerity to stand by an agreement. To further signal the persons’ commitment, they would often kiss the X. This action led to the X becoming a symbol of a kiss.

July 6th is International Kissing Day. Legend tells the story as a dreamed up idea of a Dental Insurance Company. They wanted a way to increase business. The idea spread and was adopted by the United States. July 6th is also National Fried Chicken Day and World Kiss Day. Any excuse to promote a product or bring excuses for pleasure to the world can be created and the world will follow.

Kissing is something that I could talk about over and over again and never get bored. What can I say, I love to kiss? Nothing is better than a good kiss. Nothing makes the birds seem to sing louder, the grass seem greener than a great kiss. We have talked in past articles about kissing, but not really too much about methods. You aren't born a good kisser. The only thing that will help you is education and practice. I'm sure glad there are things like kissing to practice in life, life would have been boring if all it was, was geometry. Let's talk about different ways that you can kiss. Take some notes and practice on your woman. She will love the new attention. First there is the domination. We all have seen those WWII clips of them men coming back from battle and kissing their wives. This is a kiss with some power behind it. It can say many things. A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet. Maybe you might use this kiss if you haven't seen her for awhile. You might use this kiss if you are very horny and can't contain yourself any more. We all have had those strong moments where we feel like we have to kiss someone. We need an outlet for all the sexual frustration that we are feeling. The great thing about a kiss is, it is easy and fast too do. You can get your sexual frustration out without having to take off your clothes. The element of surprise is what makes a woman the wettest. This isn't a kissing technique per se, but you will get the drift. While you are kissing her, roam her body with your hands. Explore every area that you can. This will make her go crazy before you can even begin to think about what your next move is. I can't tell you enough how important this is. Before you give your woman a kiss, make sure your breath smells okay. Don't go kissing her if you just ate a tuna on rye sandwich. If you are in doubt, go brush your teeth. You don't like it when she has crap stuck in her teeth that fall into your mouth. Lets talk more about kissing and not the do's and don'ts. The explore kiss. This is where you spend some time getting to know her mouth. This is a fun one from time to time. It shows that you are interested in her. You are learning new ways to excite her. This can be good for both of you. Good for you because you will learn new things that turn her on. Great for her because she will think all this time you are spending on her is great. The peck before bed. You know you aren't getting laid when you get that little peck before she rolls over in her flannel night gown. It doesn't have to be such a little innocent kiss. Instead, look into her eyes when she gives you that little peck. Run your fingers through her hair and tell her that you love her. This will give her sweet dreams all night long. Just like the peck before bed, turn that peck before you leave for work into something special. Tell her that you will be thinking about her all day long while at work. Look her in the eyes and smile when you say it. This will keep her waiting for when you get home. You can also use kisses to see where she is at sexually. If you are turned on but you are not sure if she is, kiss her and find out. Give her a long slow kiss, if she comes back wanting more, than you know you are going to score in the sack. If on the other hand after you are done she is talking about he bills you owe that month, you aren't getting laid tonight. You may not know it, but a kiss holds a lot of power to a woman. With the right kiss you can make her go from undecided to a horny vixen when it comes to sex. If you aren't sure that you will get laid, a kiss is a good way to test the waters. A kiss can also be a way to show affection. If you just want to show that you love her and are thinking about her, a great way to show it is a little peck. This will make her feel warm and fuzzy inside and know that you care. Kissing shows interest. It maybe sexual or just love, but it does it all the same. Your woman will respond to this the same way time and time again. She will be happy to feel your lips on hers. Don't forget, you can never get too many kisses in your lifetime.