You have to be able to read body language to see when a girl wants you to make a move. Then, you have to have the cajones to actually go in for the kill. Finally, most importantly, you have to know HOW to kiss a girl when you connect for the first time. The right situation is key. Some girls would never kiss you in a public situation. Some girls would never kiss you for the first time if it's not exactly the right time. Some will kiss you just because you made the move. Some will turn you down once to see if you try again. All of this is obviously personal preference, so some guidelines on how to kiss a girl are in order. Eye contact has been rated the number one way by women to create that spark before you kiss a girl. Make atleast a full hard one and a half seconds of eye contact. Next, look at the lips as you lean in (slowly). Make one last glimpse of eye contact before you close your eyes and lay your lips on hers. Please, for heaven's sake, don't go open mouth for the first kiss unless you're in the bedroom. Kiss her once, deep, passionately for one and a half seconds, then break and give a quick kiss. As you back away, look into her eyes and smile. That is how to kiss a girl for the first time. Now, none of this is useful if you can't time it correctly. More important than how to kiss a girl is when to kiss a girl. Seizing the moment is crucial, but how to recognize that moment? If a girl wants you to kiss her, she'll let you know - you just have to know what to look for. She'll lean into you and laugh and touch. Most importantly is touch. Any touch that doesn't seem accidental means she's into you. If she's made body contact with you or put her hands on you, then you know somewhere deep inside she wants you to kiss her. Make sure to make some eye contact to make sure. Lean in just barely into her bubble and see if she lets you in...if she does, a classy move could be to kiss her on the cheek as you both laugh at a joke. If it's ok to be in her bubble, it's ok to make your move....don't second guess yourself. Just make sure to follow the above tips on how to kiss a girl and you'll be fine.