If you?re looking to learn how to kiss a girl, believe it or not, it?s really very easy. As a matter of fact, every kiss can be broken down into three phases?the pre kiss, the kiss and the post kiss. Each part of the phase is just as important as the one before or after it. In this article, I?m going to go over these three phases and give you a general idea of how to go about each one. Hopefully, this will help you on your way to becoming a great kisser. The pre kiss is when you look into your girl?s eyes. It is extremely important that you get this part down cold. The reason is not so obvious so let me explain it here. How you look into a girl?s eyes will greatly affect how she will receive the kiss. If you look deeply into them and show genuine interest in your girl, this will heighten the excitement level on the other end. This will, in turn, increase the pleasure of the actual kiss. The kiss itself has to be done just right in conjunction with the pre kiss look. For example, if you look into your girl?s eyes lovingly, then you want the kiss to be that kind of kiss?sweet and gentle. However, if you give your girl that look (you know the one I mean) where they?re thinking that the kiss is leading up to a lot more, then that?s the kind of kiss you want to give. If the two phases don?t match, there is a disconnect and the experience is not going to be a good one. Finally, there is the post kiss phase. This is similar to the pre kiss as you are again looking into your girl?s eyes. If your girl is then interested in getting another kiss (assuming the first one was good) she will let you know. This is how YOU will know that you?ve done a good job on all three phases. The last thing you want to do is kiss your girl and then walk away and turn on the TV. This is a REAL turn off. If this seems all too easy, it is. Kissing shouldn?t be rocket science. Truth is, it should be the most natural thing in the world. Problem is, so many people get so hung up on technique that they just don?t get the emotional part of it.