There are several types of kisses. Simple kiss, mischievous kiss, lovers kiss or kiss before sex. Whatever might be the kiss but the pleasure in all of them is same. To express their love and affection there is no greater means that you can rely rather than kiss.

There is so much importance for kiss in sex. More use of kisses more close you get to each other.

There are several uses of a kiss. During kissing the salivary glands will salivate more,which will help in preventing caries,destroys bacteria in mouth and helps in maintaining proper oral hygiene. The more you keep on kissing more is the salivation.

In a french kiss, a total of 23 muscles will become active and perform their action and as a result those muscles are relaxed, tuned and exercised.

During kissing there will be release of several hormones in human body which will create a state of well being, pleasure, thrill and happiness. The main hormone among these is Dopamine.

Try to experiment while kissing, having a chocolate, a sip of wine with olives, smell of natural flowers etc..But in addition to these Kissing is an art. One should know how to kiss properly. Touching or interlocking the lips doesn't make a kiss,there should be passion, there should be love, there should be commitment, there should be lust.

Generally females don't like to lip lock with her lower lip in her boys mouth and boys sometimes kiss by taking both of her lips into his mouth. So be aware of kissing techniques and have a good posture, take each other in to arms, have a warm hug and then proceed to kiss.

All these actions will generate higher amounts of Dopamine and creates a feeling of happiness and pleasure which is healthy for neurons in brain.This enhancing the life and activity of neurons of brain.

So happy kissing and be healthy.

There are many ways to be romantic and some of them are easier than others. Sending romantic and flirtatious text messages is one of the easiest ways to show your love and get her to like you more. Why? It is because text messaging and SMS text messages have become an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men! It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), and you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances. This can help to build up your confidence. Most important, it cuts out all the attraction triggers that can normally work against you, such as your clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc?., so all you are left with are your words and timing. Before going further on how you can impress and make her thinking of you more often through text messaging, you need to first watch out some of the mistakes that we may make in sending messages. (i) Sending boring one-lines that can lead to the other person answering either a yes or no. This reminds me of how lawyers cross-examine witnesses in courts. When talking to opposite sex whether face-to-face or by text messaging we should avoid talking in this way and instead ask open-ended questions that allow the other person the chance to talk as much as he/she can. (ii) Avoid sending those normal, day-to-day conversation words like ?How are you?? or ?What are you doing?? These messages are boring and they do nothing to impress or attract women. Here are 3 ways to make text messaging more interesting: (1) Messages that can bring her into action One of the ways you can consider is while she is in the office, you send her an SMS asking her to check the email box. Before doing this, you will send a romantic electronic card that probably displays a big red heart or a picture of a guy blowing kisses with some words like ?I can?t wait to kiss you again.? (2) Sending messages saying why you love her Probably you have already said or whisper to her ears countless time ?I love you?. How about making this more sincere or romantic by explaining why you love her through text messages? For a memorable series of romantic text messages, start with the first one with, ?Why I love you.? Then throughout the rest of the day, send more romantic text messages that explain exactly why you love her in great detail. Some ideas for you to bounce off from here: (a) You make me a better man (b) You accept my shortcomings and love me the way I am (c) You make me feel comfortable when I am around you (d) You bring out the best in me (e) No one else has ever made me feel the way like you do (f) Being in love with you is one of the best things that ever happen to me (g) Your strengths and integrity inspires me to be a better person (3) Sending messages using quoted love poems What better way to express your love in the form of love poems? You could send a series of romantic text messages, listing out an entire poem, Or, probably you may use one of these short love poetry quotes as text messages any time. (a) Roses are red and the sky is blue, my love for you is always true. (b) Soul meets soul on lover?s lips (c) You are more than love to me...You are everything. (d) The miles are many, the visits are few, but when you see the sun set think of me and you. (e) I want someone who will never leave my side. I want someone who will say "I love you" and mean it. I want someone who will watch a Friday night movie w/me. I want someone who will put me in a happy mood when I'm in a bad one. I want someone who will hold me when I'm scared. I want someone who will give me the jacket when I'm cold. I want.........you

"How to kiss a girl?" The two meanings of this phrase.

A lot of guys will ask this question... but it ussually has two very different meanings:

1) It is a question about how to become a "good" kisser. How to kiss as a "process" and

2) It is (more often I think) a more general question encompassing several others like: "how do I know when is the right time to kiss her", "how do I know that she wants to be kissed", "shoud I kiss her or not"

This page deals with the second aspect.

Let's take this one step at a time!

How do... I kiss a girl? How do I know it's the right time? How do I know she's ready?

These are your questions, but I am not going to answer them, I am going to tease you a little with the answer you need to hear first. The reason most men do not kiss a girl is because they don't even GO FOR IT... and the top reasons that men don't go for the kiss are:

Number one, Fear of losing her: Most men will not attempt to kiss the girl because they have this thought running in their head saying "but wait... what if I kiss her now and she doesn't like it? I'm going to lose her, aren't I?", "what if this isn't the right time and I blow it?"... and on and on the thought runs and they never do it!!! They don't do it before it's time, while it really is time, not even when it's too late. The trouble with this thought is that it's based on a scarcity mentality that says "if I lose this girl, there won't be another one for months", when in reality you could be meeting 10-20 girls a day if you had the proper social skills (which are very learnable).

Number two, waiting for the signal: A lot of men will wait for a woman's signal before they attempt anything, and in fact most mainstream "dating" articles written by well-meaning but cluless women advise waiting for a woman's signal. The trouble with this is that men are notoriously dumb. Infact it has been proven recently in neuroscience that men have a TEN TIMES smaller capacity for social intelligence (reading cues and social situations). So any signal she gives, your mind is literally not built to read anyway. Attempt it anyway. Even if it's not the right time and she turns her head, guess what?! She will now respect you even more for having tried. She's now MORE likely to want it.

Number three, the man's need to be perfect and protect his ego: Men are interesting creatures. They seem to have this immense obsession with always needing to appear like they already know everything and never failing in public. Most guys feel that if they were to try to kiss a girl, and she dodged the kiss, that it means they're somehow "bad" or imperfect. No it doesn't! It simply means it wasn't the right time. Try again later or with a different girl. Don't tie your identity to outside events. Attempt it anyway. If you're a beginner and not experienced in kissing... guess what? You're likely to get it wrong the first dozen or hundred times... So what? Attempt it anyway. That's the only way you learn this stuff.

Number four, being emotionally attached to the outcome: This is related to the previous one. A lot of guys will go into an interaction with a woman with an outcome in mind, a goal of what they want to "get" or "achieve" with this girl, like for example "I have to kiss her by tonight", or "I want to take her home on the second date, right after my carefully crafted way of tricking her over to my place". Don't do it! To translate some "womenspeak" to you, this is what women mean when they talk about men "objectifying" them. Women are not an object or an immaterial "thing" you set goals for. Go into any interaction with a woman with no outcome in mind other than "having fun, and getting to know her". So how do you do it, without wanting to do it? To use use some new-agey terminology, you "allow" it to happen. You literally go into the situation with a mindset of "I just want to get to know this woman. I would love it if we made out or even had sex tonight, but I don't care either way. All I need is to have a great interaction, anything else is a bonus". Go in with this mindset, and let things unfold naturally. That way you will naturally find yourself going for the kiss, without fearing the outcome, positive or negative.

Ok, so I've teased you long enough with WHY you don't go for the kiss in the first place (which is 90% of the puzzle). How do you actually do it right? There are 2 elements to this:

1) Location

It's incredible how many guys get this stuff wrong. You have to realize that even if a woman's desire to be kissed at this moment right now is as strong as she has ever felt... if the location is not right... it's NOT happening! So what makes a location wrong? The most important of all are social and peer pressure. If this is to be your first kiss ever, the girl is going to feel very very uncomfortable being kissed in front of first and foremost her friends, and secondly, too many strangers. The solution is very simple, just "do isolation" (as the guys over in the seduction forums call it). Take her away from the friends, and do it. And "take her away" doesn't mean "the next town". It can be as simple as 5 feet away from the group you're all standing in, the couch on the other end of the room, the next room. If you're on a date in public, it can mean a bench on the other side of the park. The examples are non-important. Just remember the principle.

2) Timing

I am going to have to give you a huuuuuge dissapointment here. I can not teach you timing over a textual page on the internet. Nor can I do it face-to-face. Nor can anyone on this planet, male or female do it. The only way to learn "timing", and the exact moment to kiss a girl is -personal experience- To put it bluntly, what this means is that you will need to get your timing wrong a whole bunch of times. Please accept this right now and go Attempt it now! Stop searching for the perfect information. No one on the planet can give you a magical pill that will change this fact. You will need to get your timing wrong a lot of times. Go do it anyway!

p.s. she, and any other girl who witnessed that will respect you more for having attempted, even if they may not seem to show it.

Please, take this information, go out there and use it. Oh, and read this 2-3 more times. It's alot of information about how to kis a girl packed into one densely concentrated page.

Having the first kiss is like a bungee jumping ride. There?s this frightening feeling but still the urge to take it is more powerful and exciting. Panic and tension could only be gone once it has been tried. And after learning how to kiss for the first time, it can never be forgotten. No one ever perfected his or her first kiss the first time. Don't be disheartened if the first attempt was a disaster and anyone can keep this from happening if the right time, position, and place are secured. Check out the list of things one should remember before indulging into his or her first kiss: 10. Get some privacy. Being alone will give a moment that only the couple could remember. It must be a special time with no other people as this destroys the special element of the first kiss. In a party the best way to get by is to ask the other person if he/she would like some fresh air. A short walk can do the trick or just hang out where there are no other people to pry. 9. A breath of fresh air is a must. No one wants to kiss someone who smells like onion, right? If planning to go out on a date, expect to have that first smooch if it clicks. So bring on a breath spray or ready some minty gum. Make sure to avoid spicy meals, curry or anything that is high up with garlic. Go for food with lemon flavoring or sweets as these linger less in the mouth. Make that kiss as exciting and worth remembering but not the smell. 8. Choose the best time. Be specific with the time in mind. A perfect timing can give the first kiss the perfect moment. It could start with a casual conversation, eye contact and hola!! the right time to kiss. Take the opportunity, as it might not pass again. Try not to kiss if one is still trying to say something or looking for something in the purse or pocket. Neither would want to be caught exposed or unprepared for it will be a tongue-tied moment for both. Who would like to remember the bad timing instead of the kiss anyway. 7. Never ever ask for permission. Girls like it when a guy initiates the kiss, that is most specifically in romantic moments. Although, they don't want to be caught unaware, girls do love to be kissed spontaneously. Look for signs: leaning, smiling, lip biting, hair toss, etc. 6. Keep it cool. Never grab the other like a glutton. The whole first time kiss scene should be like a slow moving flick. Relax, enjoy, and savor the kiss while it is on going. 5. Don't kiss like a mannequin. Arms and hands should go hand in hand with the kiss. Nothing is sweeter than holding her shoulders, hips, or waist when kissing. Girls can use her fingers to passionately comb the guy?s hair while the other hand is touching the neck. Oh, can't wait to feel goose bumps. 4. They say that one should never trust a person who kisses with his or her eyes open. Anyway, it isn't romantic after all. Kiss with the eyes closed, feel the moment and try to get away from all distractions. 3. This one is for first time kissing guys. Imagine that the girl is just asleep. Anyone coming near a sleeping person wouldn't want to surprise and shock her, isn't it? Be subtle, don't kiss hard, feel the softness of each other?s lips. Be gentle when touching. 2. Oh boy the tongue! Watch out as neither one would like to cause asphyxia. Start with just touching the lips, instinct will lead the way. Don't try to force the tongue into her as it is not romantic and not a pretty sight either and? 1. Last but most importantly, keep saliva in control. Aside from choking, some are so turned off by slobbers. No one wants to end up having his or her date feeling exhausted and disgusted. Everybody who had their first kiss felt those little butterflies in their stomachs. It may not be that perfect, but it could be worth remembering and still be as romantic as ever.

Steps on how to Kiss..

introHow to Kiss

This is an instructable on how to kiss. Kissing can be a hard thing to do until you get comfortable doing it, and while nothing can fully prepare you for a kiss, this how-to will explain some of the basics of kissing a partner and explore some simple kissing do's and don't's.

Note: I am by no means a kissing expert. The information in this instructable is based upon experience and some simple research on the subject.

step 1Pre Kiss

The lead up to the kiss can actually be the most difficult part of kissing. Figuring out whether your partner is ready to kiss you or not can be a challenge of its own.

If you see one or a combination of these indicators, there is a good chance that your partner is thinking about kissing you.

eyes become soft and heavy

eye contact is made and sustained

head turns slightly

lips are licked or bitten

your partner makes physical contact with you beyond what seems appropriate for normal conversation (e.g. he or she brushes your hand, touches you on the shoulder or leg, or fidgets with an accessory)

easy conversation comes to a stop, but eye contact is not broken

your partner smiles in conjunction with any of the above behaviors

To give your partner the cue that you wish to kiss him or her, you can try one or a combination of these things.

soften your gaze by relaxing the muscles around your eyes, somewhat like smiling but without engaging your mouth

smile often, though

make eye contact and allow it to linger for a few moments longer than you normally would

find ways to subtly (but respectfully) touch your partner

If you think you are picking up some of these signs, but are still unsure if the person wants to be kissed then there is nothing wrong with just simply asking your partner if a kiss would be all right. Granted it breaks the mood a bit, and sensing the magic is always nicer than asking if it's there, but better to be sure your partner is on board for the kiss otherwise you might be heading for an embarrassing situation.

If you've assessed the situation, and it seems probable that a kiss is imminent, the next things to think about are timing and approach. The key to nailing the pre kiss is matching your partner's speed and intensity. The kiss is the first opportunity to physically connect with your partner, and so you want to meet him or her halfway.

Here are some steps you could follow as you go in for the kiss. Keep in mind that the kiss you share with someone is as unique as your relationship with that person, so follow your instincts and use the following as a rough guideline.

1. Establish a physical connection by placing your hands on your partner's body. Placement depends on the dynamic between you, you can softly touch the face, the back of the neck or the shoulders. Be gentle with your touch if this is the first contact you are making. Stay away from "high risk" zones on your partners body, as you just want to indicate that you are interested in kissing them, not give them a full body search.

2. Establish and maintain eye contact from this point on. The eyes are often a clear indicator if someone wants to be kissed, or is thinking about kissing you. Try to look at your partner with a deep, yet soft gaze. Use your eyes to send them a message that shows how you feel for your partner, e.g., "I care for you, I am on fire when I look at you, I want to kiss you."

3. As you lean in, you may want to tilt your body and head to accommodate your partner's positioning. One partner will have to make room for the other, or both partners can just slightly tilt heads in opposite directions. Basically you are just trying to avoid a nose collision as you get closer, so just pick a side to turn to and don't give it too much thought.

4. Gauge how quickly your partner is leaning in and try to meet at the halfway point between you, so neither person is overextended. Over/under extension can make one person feel like they are not getting met and are either too aggressive, or not engaged enough.

If you have come this far with your partner chances are you are going to kiss, or you have misread the entire situation and they are just leaning in to look at something stuck in your teeth.

If the first is true, then read on because it's time to pucker up and get on with THE KISS.

step 2Practice the Kiss

Once you're leaning in, things start to happen quickly. If you are nervous about the actual kiss, why not practice beforehand to hone your technique? An arm or mirror could serve as useful tools to self monitor the feel and look of your kissing style.

Rest assured, THE KISS is coming, but here it is broken down first, step by step so that you know whats going on when you see it at full speed with a partner in the next step.

Here is a head on view of a kiss. I am just practicing here, so it might look a little funny, but once your partner is sitting across from you and your lips meet theirs, it's H, O, T hot.

1. You are in the pre kiss state described in step 1 - your head is tilted, there is lip activity, your eyes are in a soft deep gaze and maybe there is some light physical contact.

You could open or close your eyes, though if you're nervous, closed could help avoid the deer in headlights look of fear. I like to start with mine open and close them just before lip contact.

2. Either you or your partner has shown that they would like to kiss. Start putting the pieces from step 1 together. Lean in and meet your partner halfway. Begin to pucker the lips by bringing them together, pushing them out, and applying just a faint hint of suction on your closed mouth to bring the cheeks slightly in.

Now is a good time to lick your lips if they aren't already moist.

Keep leaning in, remembering to tilt your head until you make contact with your partner's lips.

Remember not to forget about hand placement! A gentle touch to the back of the neck, the shoulders or your partners head is all you need. This can also help in guiding someone into the kiss if they are lost or are having trouble meeting you.

3. Your lips come to a full pucker position. They are soft, but not floppy. They can be fully formed and firm, but certainly not hard. This is an ambiguous state for any solid to be in - but these are your lips were talking about here - they can handle it!

Make contact with your partners lips.

If this is your first kiss, you don't want to linger too long, but you also don't want to just peck them and retreat.

Count "one-one thousand, two-one thousand" in your head before relaxing the pucker in your lips and beginning to pull your head away. You can hold the kiss like this for longer, but after 5 seconds or so should start think about ending this kiss. If you would like to keep kissing after that you can always lean in again and follow up the first kiss with a second, third or fourth kiss.

Remember to breathe through the kiss. It's all right to hold your breath for a short kiss, but for longer ones you are going to have to breathe while you are kissing. Since your mouth is occupied, you are going to have to use your nose. Just breathe normally and continue on with the kiss.

To end the kiss begin to lighten the pressure your lips are applying to your partners' and relax your puckered lips. As your lips relax they will separate and a small amount of air will be sucked into your mouth. This will create the kissing noise, or "smack" that is identified with a kiss.

At this point contact with your partner's lips has ended and its time to start thinking about giving them a little space and time to reflect about what just happened.

4. Move your head back slowly and begin to relax the muscles around your mouth. You can keep your eyes closed for a bit as you revel in the kiss and slowly return to your normal un-extended position.

5. You are now in the post kiss phase and if it was a good kiss, words won't do the feeling justice. If you and your partner liked what just happened you can follow up with more, or just enjoy what the two of you shared. If it was a bad kiss, you can try to make changes and give the kiss another go. If things can't be salvaged at that particular moment, don't force it - take a break and talk about it with your partner and try again after a few minutes or another day.

step 3The Kiss

Ok, it's time for THE KISS. Take all the elements from steps 1 and 2 and put them together. It's good to be methodical while practicing to kiss, but when it's time to do the real thing it should flow smoothly and come naturally. That means less step-by-step instructions, and more videos of the real thing.

Just a simple kiss.

Put a few of them together.

You can also touch your tongue to your partners lips ever so slightly. (This is not a French Kiss - just one method of placing the tongue towards the front of your mouth so you can just lightly brush your partner's lips upon contact.)

step 4Post Kiss

The post kiss is a lot like the pre kiss state, but more warm and gooey.

If you enjoyed the kiss show your partner that you liked it by smiling and/or holding their hand.

If you are going to kiss again keep things energized by maintaining physical contact with your partner even though you have pulled your lips away. For multiple kisses its ok to do the same thing over and over, but it's better to change things up a little bit. Here are some variables to think about modifying:

angle of approach

speed of kiss

length of kiss

kiss firmness/intensity

lip positioning (The first kiss is often a dead on approach, but offsetting one set of lips either up, or down can lead to a nice interlocking kiss where one partner's lips are nestled within the "lip valley" of the other partner's lips.)

hand placement

body placement

If you are done kissing for a little while just stare into your partners eyes and enjoy what the two of you just shared. Hopefully it will be the first of many and the twinkle in your eye as well as the smile on your face should make you feel like you are on top of the world.

step 5How NOT to Kiss

Kissing "don't's" are just as important as kissing "do's". Just as doing all the right things can make for a magical kiss, doing all the wrong things could seriously throw a monkey wrench into your kissing future.

So remember, don't:

try to suck the face off of your partner. Kissing is exciting, and there can certainly be an urge to latch on and suck, but try to resist, as it will probably upset your partner.

force your tongue onto the scene. The right time to use your tongue while kissing will present itself after a few kisses, a few minutes or a few days. Forcing it too early or being aggressive with your tongue before you or your partner is ready is not a good idea.

kiss your partner with a mouth full of saliva. Remember to swallow excess spit before locking lips with your partner. While this is more of a problem with French kissing, if the saliva were to somehow find its way out of your mouth during a regular kiss, it could be problematic.

kiss with bad breath or fuzzy teeth. Practice good oral hygiene before kissing and take a second to think about whether or not your lips and mouth are a nice environment to kiss. It's true that kissing someone who has eaten onions or garlic can be pungent - so watch out for kisses after meals, but often if both partners have had the same thing to eat neither of them will mind very much.

miss your partner's face or misalign and hit noses. It's not the end of the world if this happens, but a simple turn of the head or glance to make sure you are properly aligned can help you avoid this potentially embarrassing situation.

don't run into trouble with braces. Locking braces, cutting your partner, or just clashing metal is a real danger when you or your partner have braces. Kiss gently when you have braces and take special care not to link your braces onto theirs. Kissing with braces is most definitely possible and having them shouldn't keep you from being a great kisser.

Even if you do make some of these mistakes none of them are unrepairable. Remember, kissing certainly is a big part of becoming close with someone, but it is by no means everything. If you do happen to have a bad experience just take a second to compose yourself, and try giving it another shot.

How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time

Kissing a girl for the first time, whether it's your first kiss or just the first time you're kissing a new girl or girlfriend is an exciting prospect for most guys!

However, chances are that if your first kiss does not go well at all that it will be the first and last time you kiss that girl. You see, many if not most girls decide right after their first kiss whether they will ever kiss the same guy again in the future.

For many guys kissing a girl or getting to "first base" is often just a step towards getting more intimate with a girl. Girls on the other hand often often judge a guy by the way the kisses in deciding whether he will be a good partner.

Your first kiss does not have to be perfect from a physical point of view. If she has had other boyfriends in the past you don't need to kiss her like she has never been kissed before! It does not have to be a long and passionate kiss either. What is important though is that it has to be a positive and memorable experience for her, not one she would rather forget.

Before we look at some specific kissing tips here is a video that illustrates some common do's and don'ts of kissing a girl.Kissing Tips On How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time

Here are some specific kissing tips on how to kiss a girl for the first time. Although there is no substitute for experience the following tips should put you on the right track.

1. Girls are romantic at heart.

Try to make kissing her for the first time a special event. Buy her flowers or if you are short of money try to pick some flowers for her in a field or give her flowers from your garden.

Make sure to compliment her! Tell her she looks beautiful!

Act like a gentleman. Open the car door for her, pull out her chair for her if you go to a restaurant and let her walk through a door first. Be kind and considerate and she will love you for it.

2. Set the mood.

Choose a nice environment for your first kiss. Don't kiss her in a public place, if possible. You want her to be at ease and kissing her for the first time with her friends, your friends or complete strangers staring at you is not a good idea.

You want to have her full attention just before kissing her and also while you're busy kissing her. If it's at your house put on some nice background music, dim the lights and create a nice environment that will set the mood for kissing her.

3. Relax!

It's normal that you may be nervous before kissing her for the first time. But, do your best to relax. If you appear nervous or anxious you may send her the wrong body signals and create the impression that you're not comfortable being with her.

4. Make sure she is ready to kiss you.

Even if she enjoys your company and going out with you it does not necessarily mean she wants to kiss you or be in a relationship with you. She may just see you as a good friend!

And, even if she wants to be more than just friends it does not mean she is ready or willing to kiss you when you are. So, before kissing her for the first time you have to be sure she wants to kiss you as well.

5. Break the touch barrier.

It's much more difficult to kiss a girl for the first time that you have not even touched. If she is not willing to hold your hand or seems reluctant to do so it's a clear sign that she will more than likely not be willing to kiss you.

Try touching her a couple of times while talking to her such as briefly and casually touching her hand or arm while saying something and notice how she reacts. Does she feel comfortable being touched or does she pull away?

6. Lean in for the kiss.

When you feel the moment is right, look into her eyes or at her lips and lean forward to kiss her. Tilt your head slightly to the left or the right to avoid bumping noses and close your eyes just before your lips touch her lips.

Just give her a soft and gentle kiss on the mouth. Pull back for a second and if you feel like it and it seems as if she enjoyed it lean forward and kiss her again.

7. Deepening the kiss. (Optional)

Your first kiss does not have to be anything more than described above. However, if you want to you can deepen the kiss by gently nudging her lips with the tip of your tongue. Wait for her to open her lips slightly and use the front part of your tongue to caress her lips and tongue.

Don't just stick your tongue into her mouth and be careful not to push your tongue too deep into her mouth. You don't want to gag her!

As mentioned above, your first kiss does not have to be a passionate French kiss with a lot of tongue kissing and it does not have to be a long make-out session either. If you want more information on how to French kiss and how to make out, see how to kiss.Kissing Do's And Don'ts

Here are some common kissing do's and don'ts that you need to be aware of when kissing someone, especially if it's your first kiss.

1. Fresh breath.

Make sure your breath smells french! Taking her to a nice restaurant may be very romantic but kissing her after you have been eating garlic is not cool!

If you don't have the opportunity to brush your teeth before kissing her at least suck a mint or chew some gum to freshen your breathe before kissing her.

2. Don't grope her!

Girls do not like to be groped, especially not while kissing a guy for the first time!

Use your hands to hold her or to touch her face or hair and not to grope her.

3. Don't ask for permission.

Girls like confident guys. Don't ask her if you may kiss her! If you feel like kissing her and the moment seems right just do it!

4. Don't see how far you can get.

Kissing someone special for the first time should be a pleasant experience for both of you. The fact that she may be ready and willing to kiss you does not mean she wants to do anything more than just kissing. Don't try to see how far you can push her! Just enjoy kissing her!

If you follow the above kissing tips and advice on how to kiss a girl for the first time your first kiss should be great, special and memorable.

If you think that men are the only ones lusting after women you are wrong. Women too lust after men but the man has to be "lustable". You will find some men who are worshipped by their women and some whose girlfriend makes him hump through hoops! If you are the first kind, you don't need to read this article, but if you fall in the second category then read on as you will find out how you can get a girl to kiss you: Get those kissable lips Step one to getting a girl to kiss you is to have imminently kissable lips. No matter how much girls dig cowboys, when it comes to kissing, they will choose the metrosexual man any day! Take care of your lips! So to take care of your lips use a chapstick. If your lips are really chapped and hard cut, use a good dollop of Vaseline before the date night and brush gently with a baby toothbrush. You will have baby soft lips. But do take care that you don't give her competition in the beauty department. At the end your lips should look soft and moisturized. Build her interest When you meet her keep her interest alive. Women get stimulated by cerebral conversation. Try to find out about her interests and build your conversations around it. Try to keep conversations light and witty and do try to sound like an intelligent yet sensitive person. Be flirty While all the intellectual conversation is going on try to flirt a little. With flirting you are establishing a premise of something physical in your expectation. Be an ingenious, witty and charming flirt. Women find such men irresistible. Have good dental hygiene Bad breath can kill the most stimulating of all conversations. You can NEVER get a girl to kiss you no matter how good looking you are or how rich you are if you have bad breath. So take care of your dental hygiene. Make sure that you brush your teeth and floss before you head out for that date. Also remember that mouthwash is one of the most important inventions when it comes to keeping bad breath at bay! If you still don't feel confident enough about your breath, have some breath mints. Avoid the gum as they are not as effective as mints and a man chewing gum does not look like he is interested in getting kissed. Look at her lips Don't forget to gaze into her eyes while talking as this makes you look interested in her. But more importantly, keep glancing at her lips. This will send signals to her brain triggering the need to kiss you. Keep the touching light Keeping the touching light and easy makes sure that physical comfort that has been established. Lean into her slowly as if you mean to kiss her but move away slowly. As you build her anticipation her need to kiss you will become greater! Don't be nervous It's but natural to feel a little or a lot nervous when you are out on this mission. But make sure that you don't show your nervousness; instead project an image of the confident, interesting and sensitive man with élan and ease. You can be assured that by the time the evening is over your girl will have made the first move and will have kissed you! Now listen carefully- What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here ----- Feel free to use this article as long as the links are kept live.

French kissing is personal, its erotic and it 80% of women said they wish their partner kissed more. Furthermore 51% of women in a recent poll said that they had at some point in their life ditched their partner because they were a bad kisser! If you want to know how to give a mind blowing kiss and kiss with confidence, then here are some simple tips to make you a great kisser. 1. Relax and Concentrate If you are to give a great French kiss, you must be relaxed. One of the biggest turn offs is being kissed by someone who is tense and anxious ? the mood is immediately transferred to your partner and is a total passion killer. So relax your body and clear your mind so you can concentrate on only one thing ? the kiss itself. 2. Use Your Body As you can gather from point 1, you must relax and this means relaxing your body. You should also use your body get close to your partner and press yourself against them. Make sure you use your hands, to hold and caress your partner and touch their back and the buttocks. While a French kiss transmits your feelings through your mouth, you will add a lot to the experience if you show how much you want and desire your partner, by being close to them and caressing them. 3. Receiving and Responding Next, you need to tilt your head to one side and gently insert your tongue into your partner?s mouth and this is where the fun begins! There is actually no right way to French kiss ? the actual kiss itself depends on what you and your partner like in terms of tongue movement and pressure. Some people like lots of aggression and speed and others like slower gentler kisses and some of course like a combination of both. Start gently and see how your partner responds and simply go with the flow. French kissing should simply develop naturally and you and your partner will be transmitting what type of kisses you like. How they kiss you and how you kiss them will then flow naturally. No matter what type of kiss you are giving your partner, fast or slow, gentle or hard, you need to vary the technique. Slow down speed up and tease your partner by taking your tongue away and so on. If you add variety, you will add expectancy and excitement and remember, predictability in French kissing is a total turn off. 4. Breaks When kissing you will need to have breaks of air, but don?t let the passion die! Keep body contact keep stroking and caressing and target one of the best erogenous zones ? the neck. Kissing of the neck is one of the biggest turn ons for both men and women so get your partner moaning with pleasure by targeting this area. Another great area to target are the ear lobes. The ear lobes are a mass of nerve endings and nibbling and kissing them is again an immense turn on 5. The Perfect French Kiss Is different for everyone, but making the perfect French kiss is easy to achieve: Just relax, respond to what you receive, use your body and use breaks for air, to transmit your desire and passion. A French kiss should develop naturally and the above tips will ensure that it does and you will kiss with confidence.

The hardest thing to grapple with when you are dating is when to take that initiative and kiss her. It is a tricky affair, since you don't know what the outcome, and hurting her is something that you don't want to think about. Kissing the girl too early could suggest something vulgar and being insensitive, while kissing too late could make her conjure feelings of insecurity and low esteem. Do not forget that the first kiss will tell her many things about you, as well as hinting in certain terms what the future holds in your relationship. It is thus your prerogative to make sure that the kiss is the greatest and it will help all your kinds to be winners. Dating is all about timing, finding that important period to make that impression. This is the reason you kiss her at the opportune moment, and it is bound to be a major win, but you must know how to do it. Let it be a general rule to always kiss the girl, or any other girl in future when you can. It tells her that the dating relationship will not stagnate there since you are not that comfortable with carrying out some things. Making that move to kiss early will also clear the immense tension that is held up in the air. Once you depict to her how early that you can kiss and do it perfectly will help clear the air in your dating process, and she will not be taking your affairs skeptically. You must read between the lines whether she is ready and prepared to be kissed. Reading her actions and finding out whether she is absolutely ready to start kissing is all about feeling and being in tandem with the interaction and its intimacy. Check how comfortable her demeanor is when you are dating, more so when you are together in physical terms. Do not forget to observe her comfort when there is that intimate energy flowing between the two of you. The best way to hit a lot of points is by kissing her in one of the best ways you can think, which creates a very strong impression. Most women are in constant search of clues that will tell them how you perform in bed. Do not let the initial kiss be forced or awkward, since her mind will in an automatic reaction assume that it is the way you act in bed. She will evade you like the plague. If you have what it takes to depict to her how you can kiss in your dating process, and it has a tinge of passion and sensual feeling, her mind has not choice but conjure your performance in bed and how you will reign in that department. Do not forget that it is the small things that really matter. Small things like the way you kiss, and how you do it. Each good kiss means you are what you are saying you are. No one can argue about that. Play your cards fine in your dating relationships and you will be a sure winner.

You have to be able to read body language to see when a girl wants you to make a move. Then, you have to have the cajones to actually go in for the kill. Finally, most importantly, you have to know HOW to kiss a girl when you connect for the first time. The right situation is key. Some girls would never kiss you in a public situation. Some girls would never kiss you for the first time if it's not exactly the right time. Some will kiss you just because you made the move. Some will turn you down once to see if you try again. All of this is obviously personal preference, so some guidelines on how to kiss a girl are in order. Eye contact has been rated the number one way by women to create that spark before you kiss a girl. Make atleast a full hard one and a half seconds of eye contact. Next, look at the lips as you lean in (slowly). Make one last glimpse of eye contact before you close your eyes and lay your lips on hers. Please, for heaven's sake, don't go open mouth for the first kiss unless you're in the bedroom. Kiss her once, deep, passionately for one and a half seconds, then break and give a quick kiss. As you back away, look into her eyes and smile. That is how to kiss a girl for the first time. Now, none of this is useful if you can't time it correctly. More important than how to kiss a girl is when to kiss a girl. Seizing the moment is crucial, but how to recognize that moment? If a girl wants you to kiss her, she'll let you know - you just have to know what to look for. She'll lean into you and laugh and touch. Most importantly is touch. Any touch that doesn't seem accidental means she's into you. If she's made body contact with you or put her hands on you, then you know somewhere deep inside she wants you to kiss her. Make sure to make some eye contact to make sure. Lean in just barely into her bubble and see if she lets you in...if she does, a classy move could be to kiss her on the cheek as you both laugh at a joke. If it's ok to be in her bubble, it's ok to make your move....don't second guess yourself. Just make sure to follow the above tips on how to kiss a girl and you'll be fine.